My ex and I were dating each other for 5 1/2 years and we lived together for 3 yrs.We broke up over month and half ago and we still talk to each other almost every day. The reason he broke up with me is because we don't have any trust in our relationship. Now the past couple of weeks before we broke up he became friends with this girl who he use to have a thing for many years ago. He says it has nothing to do with her. But I think it does. And also before he broke up with me he told one of our friends that me and him were having problems lately and the next step in our relationship is marriage and he's not sure if he's ready for that. Now last week he told me that he wants to work on us and that he would stop talking with this girl because it is ruining us from getting back together. So he told this girl that he can't talk to her and everything was going fine. Then 4 days later he tells me that he doesn't want to work on this relationship right now because he needs to work on getting a new job and starting school and he needs his space but he still wants me in his life. I find out the next day that he was hanging out with this girl that night with a bunch of our friends. Is this relationship worth fighting for? Or should I just move on?
Do You Love him? Is he the one you want to marry? If so, then I say yes it is worth fighting for. He obviously is confused on what he wants. But, if you want him let him know but then give him space and time to figure things out. Question you will have to ask yourself is how long are you willing to wait and if he's worth waiting for.
I do love him & I do want to marry him. I have told him plenty of times how I feel about us. I think I may be pressuring him a little bit. I told him that I respect him for wanting to take care of his job and get his life back in order but what about us? He tells me he wants me in his life & he does sees us together in the future but right now he needs to take care of himself. how much space should I give him? Is okay if we still see each other ? Thanks everyone for your help!!! - A month ago
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In regards to your question.. "how much space should I give him?" As much as it takes... It sounds like he may feel pressured by you and if you let him be and if he truly feels the same way about you he will come back when he is ready. For the time being.. work on yourself too.. go out and do fun things reconnect with friends. Look out for your self and move forward while you wait. If he truly loves you he will come back, especially when he feels your absence. - A month ago
If you love him I say fight for him. But in the end if he's lying to you about this girl. Its not worth it I say. If someone cares enough for another person they wouldn't say that they can't work on the relationship I'm sorry but I'm sure he's secretly givin' up and doesn't have the heart to tell you. Sit him down and have a deep talk about it.
sounds like he is trying to move on but he is putting it in a nice way so that in the end he can get what he wants. don't give him what he wants because after he is done getting what he wants he is going to blow you off again and tell you some excuse that will have you wondering again. so I think its over. sorry. hope my advice helped alittle bitt good luck [=
in my opinion the guy is moving on but trying to hang on to you too, it is not right but he is trying to still be in love with you but still hold another relationship with a girl. I think it is hard but in my point of view it is really over. he is feeding you basically what you want to hear.
Sounds like he is moving on, so should you. For him to parade this girl around your mutual friends is a big step and means he is finding a place for her in his new life.
The best revenge is to find some hot guy to parade in front of your friends as well.
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