First, let me tell you the situation? In May, I ended a two year relationship with my boyfriend because he was growing distant and we fought all the time. Two days after I kicked him out, he moved in with a woman who has no teeth and looks plain horrible because he was living in a fleabag and had no other place to go. Since then, my ex has contacted me on several occasions. Now, we are seeing each other behind her back. I don't call him, he calls me. And I text him sometimes when he texts me first. Heck, sometimes I'm busy when he calls and I just let the phone ring. I never ask questions about when we will get back together, about how he feels for me, etc. And I date other guys and go out and have fun. And I never act depressed around him, I always smile. A smile works wonders. I think I pull him to me by using these techniques. I know we are on our way to getting back together because he can't stop thinking about me and calling, texting, etc. And I am a magnet for him. And I know he does not love the other woman. He can't because she is needy and desperate and moved him in as soon as I kicked him out. And since I am the one who ended the relationship, I know I have a good chance. He doesn't want to move back in with me because he wants to get his own place, and then get back with me. I am all for that because I don't want him to move back in with me right now. I want to know that he can stand on his own two feet. But still, he is still living with her and seeing me. I know it is just a matter of time. But how do I speed things up without looking like I'm trying to speed things up?
Maybe you shouldn't try to get with a guy who left you and is living with another woman. If you do, you should address the issues that caused you to break up in the first place. Your strategy sounds like it's working great though!
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