I used to love him, I gave him so much and he didn't know how to appreciate the love I gave to him. He played me a bunch of times and I broke up with him after knowing this, then I realized many things I didn't like when I was with him. Ok the point is that I don't want to be with him anymore, at all. I like someone else, but he keeps calling and bugging. And is not a good thing because the guy I like, and that likes me back, probably does not know what to think. I don't want him to think that I do anything with my x, or that because of my x, he can't act the way he wants with me. So please what should I do to get my x off my back? I already told him that he is disrespectful and I don't want to talk to him, he says he will stop calling but he still keeps doing it, I don't pick it up but it gets on my nerves.
Just pick up the phone and talk 2 him. Your new boyfriend isn't going to think that you are cheating on him by talking on the phone with another guy. He is crushed and he just wants to talk to you. Occasionally pick up the phone and talk to him like nothing is wrong. That's the nicest, and the best thing you can do.
You should try to understand that he is hurting right now. Remember he realizes that he lost a great thing in his life. I think people should understand that just because two people can't make it work doesn't mean you can't be friends. Even though you have moved on I am sure there is still a little love for that man. Maybe you just can't see it. Just explain why you want him to stop calling and tell him maybe you two can talk through email and it might help your problem.
WELL IT SEEMS THAT HE HAS NOT MOVED ON YET PROBABLY BECAUSE HE HAS NOT MET ANYONE YET AND HE MIGHT THINK THAT HE STILL HAS A CHANCE. HAS THIS HAPPEND BEFOR? AND DID HE BUG AND YOU TOOK HIM BACK? ANYWAYS WHY DO YOU TALK ON THE PHONE TO HIM WHEN YOUR boyfriend IS OVER? HANG UP IF YOU HAVE TO ANSWER OR LET YOUR BOYFRIEND ANSWER AND TELL HIM WHAT'S UP. HE WILL UNDERSTAND AND THE OTHER ONE WILL SOON STOP STALKING.
LuvTheBeach555
(Age:18 to 24)
When: More than a year ago
All you have to do is completely ignore him... Take yourself out of the game completely... With every week that passes he will call less and less and eventually the calls will stop... If you act like he doesn't exist then eventually he will go away... He is just trying to get into your head cause he probably relizes what he lost... Which is typical... You never know what you had until it is gone...
Hi Girl, I really glad that you were able to take the rose tinted glasses off and see much more clearly. I have to ask you in what ways he is contacting you. Like is he calling, messsaging or emailing you?
My best advice would be to continue to ignore him. Don't respond to any of his ways of contacting you. Even though initially he may be really persistent, if he is not getting any sort of response he will get over the challenge and give it up
Just don't pick up the phone and then he will eventually get it.. if the guy that you like sees that you pay no attention to it he will know that you do not want anything to do with him
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