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Was I played?

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Anonymous User (Age:Under 18)     When: 4 months ago
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so I dated this milf for about 7 months she was separated but not divorced and recently she broke up with me and she broke up with me because she had a drunken one night stand with his ex and she couldn't take the guilt so she broke up with me a week after the one night stand she is not getting back with him but she and I talked and she told me that all these months I being used for sex and a distraction and she told me that she was never who I thought she was and that she was trying to learn to love with someone who would love her because her marriage was a mess so here I am wondering is she really that good of a liar or was she just telling me this because she felt threatened or hurt or something else?

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Elly70 (Age:Under 18)      When: 4 months ago
No she had to be telling you the truth. I think she just did use you (not to sound mean or anything sorry if I do) I was that way with someone to so I know how you feel right now. But yes I think she did use you.
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Question Asker Ohh well ill get over it - 4 months ago

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Wisegirl47 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
No she was telling you the truth, you were just being used for sex. And I can't believe you are under 18 because what respectable "MILF" would use jail bait for sex?
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Question Asker Lol well she is young too but the relationship seem so real or is that just me thinking it was and overlooking all the obvious signals?? and honestly I was doing the same but it just shocks me to find out she was doing that to me - 4 months ago
Answerer Well it doesn't surprise me you would think that, guys often use sex as a way of bonding. It's like..sex for guys, is like emotional vulnerability for women. The more they get from the opposite sex, the more attached they become. So you're not stupid for thinking there was something more at all, just a little naive I suppose. I mean could you honestly see a future with this woman in the long run? - 4 months ago
Question Asker Well I guess I always knew this was going to end and I always had my doubts about the relationship and I was not completely happy with her either but I got attached a little and lately on top of everything I have been having problems at home so I guess I just miss having someone there to support me and tell me everything is going to be okay so I'm guessing that's why it kinda hurts - 4 months ago
Answerer Well I'm glad I could help, will you go answer mine? - 4 months ago
Question Asker Sure which one is it?
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Answerer The one that asks if it's a neon sign that the guy likes me - 4 months ago
 

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Steven08 (Age:18 to 24)      When: 4 months ago
proud of you dude I had the same experience with a milf, except the getting used part lol nah but honestly when it happened to me I did not expect anything serious to come out of it so unless this woman is around your age type of milf then you have a lot to learn but to answer your question yes you were used
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Question Asker Well I'm getting over it now and honestly I knew it was going to get nowhere and I was kinda using her too in a way but I got a little attached and that's how it happened - 4 months ago
 
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