Me and my ex boyfriend broke up because of his masters classes he didn't have that much time for me , and we started to fight a lot.everything started to fall apart in less in 2 weeks.and at the end he told me better we should just break up.but first he wanted come over and talk when he came over he acted like the biggest jerk.but that same night he called and kept telling me that myb we will get back together.and that he still wants me in his life.! after that day he didn't call me.and I went on a trip.when I was on the trip he kept asking my friends when I was going to come and everything. in college he was looks at me but doesn't say hi.! for his bday I called him to say happy bday and he was soo happy to talk to me , he didn't want to hang up! then I found out he still has the picture of me and him by his bed. DO you think I still have a chance?
the Only problems is that one of his friends for college keeps talking bad about my relationship with him and I called him the other night , to ask him to tell her to stop.and maybe he was in a bad mood because he was really mad.and he didn't want to talk.! and now I'm confused. Because he doesn't stop looking at me at college and he still has my stuff in his ROOM.WHAT should I do.?
Update: Well, lately he hasn't been going out that much , he has been going out with his family a lot, The weird part is that everywhere I go I see him.and we don't say hi to each other.we don't talk.and its killing me.why does he act like this.:(
3 months ago
Update: This cousin called me today and told me his still has my picture in his wallet.:( I don't know what do .why is he acting like his. ! and I'm scared to make the first move because last time I talked to him he acted all mean:( HELP
3 months ago
Yeah you definitely have a chance to get him back if that's what you want. You should just talk to him about it. It sounds like when you called for your birthday everything was good. Just call him again and ask him out. If the lines of communication are open you can still get back together, so give it a try.
Sounds like he may still be interested in you, but he needs to work up a little confidence before he talks to you about your relationship with him, and deal with some of his own anger issues before he can even do that. Next time you catch him in a good mood and he wants to talk, casually ask him why/if he is mad about anything. Letting him know that he can always talk to you about his own issues will help bring you two closer. It will also let him know that you still care about him, which in my opinion can boost a guy's self-confidence. Once he has enough confidence and he understands that you still care about him, its up to him to open up to you about getting back together.
You obviously still hold a place in his heart. I don't really know the reason for him being upset the day you called, but you should explain to him how you feel. If you want him back let him know.
Why he was being a jerk is beyond me. Maybe he was overly stressed.
About that person talking bad about your relationship, if that person is really his friend, you can't talk against them. They feel as if its in his best interest to hear what ever they are saying.
What you have to do, is get understanding from him, that he doesn't believe what that person is saying. He really has to make up in his own mind how he feels about you. If he has some of your things up in his room, then take those signs.
He thinks of you everyday, because if he sees the pictures, you have to run through his mind. If its true of your stuff in his room [I mean personal stuff like pictures of you], that's a sign he isn't messing with other females.
Him constantly looking at you is just him maybe wanting to talk to you at least, in any case you should speak and see how it goes.
You really should ask him. What's the most he can say? or Do? I sounds like you don't talk often enough to really know if he is just lonely, but that is a possiblity. Any how, stay honest with yourself.
If he is not ready to move you from option to priority, then I don't suggest you keep him as an option. Good Luck
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