I dated this guy for about 5 months my senior year and we have been great friends for a couple years before that and he has always had a thing for me and we started dating in september. we lost each others virginity to each other and I was his first sexual relationship and it was serious even though he is a year younger than me.
then he broke up with me randomly because he said that he couldn't do the whole "i love you" thing because he didn't really know what love was because he is young and I think he got "bored" with the relationship in February. I was and still am absolutely devastated because we had an amazing, mature, and solid relationship/friendship and after we broke up, we completely stopped contacting each other which really bothered me.
Lately I've been trying to not worry about it or think about it and move on. A month after we broke up I had sex with one of my guy friends and the whole school knew about it and I know that he heard about it. he actually went to spain and had to room with my guy friend sooo after he came back from the trip his friends told me that this girl who was also on the trip was flirting with my ex the whole time but it annoyed him but he gave in probably because he wanted some *** considering he didn't hook up with anyone after he broke up with me. So now they've been going out for 2 months and its just random because they were friends for only a month and then went out.
Now, I imed him a month ago out of nowhere, and he suggested that we should hang out. so we went for a drive and talked and he told me to call him to hang out again. I didn't want to seem desperate soo I didn't contact him.
then he texted me randomly one day(while his girlfriend was on vaca) and we texted for like an hour and then he asked me to come over his house. I went over and we played rock band and when I failed he would jokingly push me and we play fought just like we used to all the time and it wasn't awkward at all.
then a week later I texted him to see what he was up to and we ended up texting each other for 3 hours late at night and ended up talking about past sex, awesome past memories, and HE ACTUALLY APOLOGIZED for being an asshole and breaking up with me! but he also asked me if I had sex with my guy friend(even though I know he already knows) and I didn't really answer the question and kinda made a joke about it but he said he was jealous.
Do you think he could be interested agian? Or should I not get my hopes up? but this is confusing because he has a girlfriend! maybe he realized what he had with me when I was gone I don't know and why would he just apologize to me like that? and if things were going great with his girlfriend then I don't see why he would talk to me or hand out with me when he could just do that with her ya know?
Well, things are probably going GOOD with this new girl, they just aren't going GREAT, like it was with you. Understand?
I will say there is a chance he is still interested, but I am not so sure it's enough interest to re-visit the relationship. The only way you're going to get to that is by the two of you having a conversation about it.
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