So me and my ex have been "apart" for about 2 months now after I totally broke her heart by cheating. my reasons don't really matter because cheating is horrible no matter what, but the cheating had nothing to do with the relationship, I was just so unhappy with the rest of my life I wanted the endorphine boost and didn't want to degrade her by using her for one.
anyways, I am absolutely in love with this girl, and have no doubts in my mind she's the one I want to marry. she was in the same place about marrying me prior to me being an idiot. she would like to remain friends and so would i, but its so horribly difficult because of the way I feel about her. also, she's been rebounding with one of my fraternity brothers (please no comments on greek life). in my heart I truly believe we're going to be together eventually, but I'm a logical person, and my head is telling me to at least try and move one. how do I cope with the rebound? and how do I get to a point where I can at least be friends with her, let things play out, but not let my emotions get in the way? should I try to move on or wait? help!?
i m kinda in the same situation and that's what I think my ex did the same as you and I know he still loves me and I feel he's gonna want me back and I really hold no ill feelings toward him or hate him for what he's doin I mean it hurts me he's wit someone else rite now but I feel if 2 people really love each other then somehow, someway it will work out . so I say you should wait and try and explain to her the situation if she really loves you she will b able to put all this behind her
emotions are a killer and cannot be trusted. drop it and move on. she will NEVER trust you again, regardless fo the reason. realize you screwed up but that doesn't make you a bad person, and LEARN from it for the future
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