He Broke Up With Me!

Get all of your girl friends together and go out and have FUN! Get a bottle of champagne and toast to the end of your relationship and to new relationships. I know that it is easier said then done but you should not call, text, e-mail him. Initial when you break up with someone there will be that stage of thinking that you'll get back together with him slowly this starts to fade away and all that is left is hurt and pain. You will get through this. Make a list of all the characteristics and qualities that you didn't like or hated about your xboyfriend then when you start thinking of how much you missed him and how great he was just look at the list. Surround yourself with your friends that will give you a shoulder to cry on and will support you through this. And maybe just maybe he will come back, but whatever you do don't contact him! He wants his space so give it to him.

i would make him miss me, and I wouldn't sit at the house and if he is texting his ex you needed not to be jealous or mad just get even. you might not even want him back after all this is over and trust me they always regret it but you have to make them regret it. and not seem desperate or heartbroken even if you are dieing inside. stay busy.

oh and I just wanted to let you know another thing, the best thing you can do to not only feel better about yourself but also make him rethink why he broke up with you is too improve upon ur appearance. for example, go get a sexy, cute hair cutt , or some highlights, something that brings out your natural beauty, and makes you look breath taking. Get a new sexy wardrobe or some sexy heels. if you run into him and he's see this new dramatic sexy change in ur appearance.it will be like taking candy from a baby.he'll rethink " why the hell he was so stupid to end it". it is also a great confidence boost.

ok , first of all you need to calm down and breathe. Next, you need to realize that he broke up with you. Stop thinking with your heart and use your brain. Start thinking rationally. As women we tend try to save a sinking ship ( a dying relationship). You need to program your mind to think that its over. This is the best thing to do and let me tell youwhy. if you continue to think about "is he coming back" , you are only going to hurt yourself in the end if he doesn't. Don't read between the lines or make up excuses for him. Believe me I have done this many times, and every time I end up hoping we get back together or staying in a horrible relationship wishing for the best. and then in the end getting hurt and realize I should have left sooner.

It is going to be hard to realize that it is over but believe me accepting this is the best thing. ( I know your probably crying now that I told you this) but pick yourself up .
i think during relationship we as women put all of ourselves into a relationship and forget about being true to ourselves. We would jeopardize our own feelings, emotions, and pride to make a relationship work or win a guy back. This is not good. I suggest not calling him, you need time to heal. talking to him will only cause you to think there is chance of you two getting back together. I am not saying they you won't get back together , but don't put all your eggs in one basket.
i also feel that this break stems from him wanting to see what out there. if he is still talking to you, he is doing so to keep the options open. he is experimenting and he wants something to run back to in case things go wrong. He probably has thought about the fact that his friends and family don't like you and wants to see if he can find someone who is more compatible with his friends and family. TRY TO FORGET ABOUT HIM. Realize that you are better than this situation. Instead of beating yourself up over the break up, build yourself up by pampering yourself. It is not the end of the world, believe me you will find better. I know I always sit there crying over a guy thinking I will never find a guy as good as him, and then woo and behold 3 weeks later someone 10times better comes along.

This is the time be mature and not let him know he's got the best of you. When guys know that your soaking and crying over them, they know that hey have youin the palm of their hands and your not going anywhere anytime soon. Make him wonder what your doing, what your thinking, how your dealing with the breakup, by keeping conversation to a minimum. I recommend not talking to him for a few weeks so that you can heal and then only talking to him if he calls. keep convo short. Just a "hi, how are u? fine, okkay I am busy gotta go.the fact that you act as if his departure is not that big of a deal with kill him inside, if he still likes u. Sooner or later he'll say something to let uknow if he still cares or not, its your choice if utake himbac