My ex girlfriend and I broke up 3 weeks ago and now she has another boyfriend for 2 weeks. She told me everything that was going on so she wasn't hiding nothing behind my back. She just wanted something new and see what's out there and when she felt wrong about and needed me she would come back to me. The thing though is now she said that she can't be friends with me because she can't be friends with someone she loves.
Her parents love me to death and treat me like one of their own. They told me to be hard on her and don't call or text her and she will be running back to me. The thing that gets me upset the most was that this kid now she going out with is a freshman in college that is 2 hours away from her. I'm a Junior at a community college that is only 15 minutes away. This kid is a virgin and is dumb ugly. Looks like someone hit him in the face with a bag of tools. All my co-workers and gay friends saw him and was like wtf is she thinking about with this kid. And most of them tell me to just move on but I am confused if I should or not because I love this girl with all my heart.
A year and a half now we been together. She is the only one I've felt this way about. And I was her first with everything. Should I wait around or just say F*** it?
I would say F*** it, because you obviously don't deserve to be with this girl, because she dumps you for this loser. Just look around, and you'll find the perfect girl for you, who won't do things like this to you. Don't worry, I'm going through the same thing. =)
You're probably screwed man. Same thing happened to me, the worst thing you can do is give her an ounce of self gratification by saying you miss her blah blah blah. Don't be me, I did just that, and it got me nowhere and less respect in the long run.
You can either beg her back like a dog, and she'll think you're pathetic, or say nothing, and she'll never call you again. Great options there... not. Reality blows man, she's just not into you anymore; it took me a long time to realize that. If she's not into you, it's best to move on and meet someone who gives a shit.
At least then, by some small chance, several years down the road, you might get your revenge. She'll call you crying that she made a mistake, and you can laugh in her face when you're with a hotter chic that gives you road hummers.
Mmmm interesting at first I was thinking that you would really wait around for her after her letting you go and going to some "butt ugly guy" as you say well let's see.
1st she dumps you for "ugly" 2nd she says that she needs to see what else is out there (BS) 3rd you live 15 away from her while "ugly" lives 2 HR away (wtf) 4th I totally respect that you did everything for the first time with each other
Don't listen to her parents when they tell you not text or call. If you want her that bad then make sure she knows that you want her that bad. Her dating the ugly guy should tell you that she is looking for something from you otherwise she would be dating a hot guy with a bit of money to take care of her with but the virgin freshman don't worry.
but my advice would just be to talk to her and let her know and ya one more thing I love that her parents love you but you need to take care of yourself and her before you worry about her parents and all so ya TALK TO HER and see what's going on I bet you she will want something and y a IF you have anything else to ask then you know my username cause I am not anonymous so ya ttyl and have fun GOOD LUCK CHUCK
Okay, so what was missing from your relationship? I don't think it's surprising that you'd hit a bump in the road with you both having been the first serious partner for each other. Feeling a little restless and curious is common. Since you've informed us that he's not physically attractive then we have to wonder what he offers here emotionally that she didn't feel like she was getting before. I'd spend some time thinking about that and whether things could change there.
Kind of doubt this is any help - I think you need advice from girls about the mixed messages and what's going on there. To me it seems like she's ready to move on and trying not to hurt you, so she's saying nice things that she doesn't mean the way she used to and thus it's all confusing. But I'd want a second opinion before I wrote that in anything other than pencil.
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