I found out my recent ex-boyfriend had stayed home sick from work today, and his car was in the shop so I offered to take him lunch. First he said it was too far of a drive (20 min), then he made a comment that he might get me sick. I didn't want him to think I was using my kindness as an excuse to see him so I drove to his house anyway and dropped off the soup, sandwich, and juices on the door step. I called him as I drove away to let him know I left the bag outside. We broke up a couple weeks ago and have decided not to see each other because we can't keep our hands off each other which complicates our emotions about the break-up. We still love each other but at the same time we both know we can't be together. I'd just like to know what kind of impression you think I left when he opened the door?
I think you did something very nice even though you broke up you still loved him to take him food when he was sick. I would of felt a lot better about it if my ex did that even though we weren't together! You did the right thing.
It's always nice to know that someone wants to take care of you,... but I am curious,.. why did you all break up?
You seem to still have feelings, and you said that you both can't stay off each when you see each other.
Point is, if there are still strong feelings there, and you broke up over something silly, then get over it and get back together. If there are reasons that you can't (or won't) get back together, then stop talking to him, because that is going to complicate your feelings as well and keep you from being able to move on.
It's always tough when emotions are involved. I think you did right and gave him the kindness he needed when he was sick. It makes it look like you put your feelings aside and looked beyond that. About the feelings issue, when love is concerned I think there is no obstacle to great to be overcome. As the saying goes, love conquers all. You should look at life in the terms that we are all here for a short time anyway. Once we die none of this really matters, so why not live life to the fullest and have no regrets when we die. I have known people that are married and they live on opposite coasts due to other commitments but they find time to love each other and see each other we they can.
Let's face it without love we are just primates just living day to day without any hope until the Grim Reaper comes calling. Hope you guys made the right decision. Good luck with things.
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