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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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a brake up when you still love each other but its just not gunna work right now? and you two have been separated for about six months. but your both so crazy for each other and been with other people to make each other jealous but at the end of the day just want each other ? like what do you do?


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MangoMooMoo      When: More than a year ago
Indeed you in quite a pickle. I know because I've been there. I don't know your personal situation or why you say it won't work at the moment but you've made the decision to split up for a reason. If this love is meant to be you will find yourselves together again, if it isn't then only time will tell in either scenario. The best thing to do is keep in mind that your needs come first and to remind yourself why you guys have taken this break. To keep this optimistic, my boyfriend and I were on a 7 month hiatus before we got back together full throttle and could not be happier.

People will enter your lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Nothing is a mistake.


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Well, I think that if you're broken up and still love each other, I would say, "Why are you still broken up?" You've had a 6 month break. You could talk to each other and see if the two of you are ready to try it again. If not, then you could take a longer break from each other. Just realize that the two of you do not have to keep on breaking up in order to just take a time out from each other. You could just agree to have some time off or time to yourselves in order to do other things. It doesn't have to become a full-scale break-up every time. It's just a matter of setting boundaries with your relationship. Something that comes to mind is that, even though the two of you love each other, do you have to see or talk to each other 24/7? If you were doing that in the past, that could be one reason why the two of you need to take some time off from each other. You may need short breaks periods in between seeing each other, such as only talking to or seeing each other every other day or so. This may help your relationship in the future. I know from experience in my own relationships, that, even though the two of you may love each other like crazy, everyone just needs a break now and then. So, as I said, if the two of you want to get back together, why don't you check it out? Just remember to give each other space & stuff like that. If you both love each other, there should be no reason why you can't work things out! Good luck! :)
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Question Asker Thanks bunch of help :) - More than a year ago
Answerer You're welcome! - More than a year ago
 

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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
This is very tough! Me and my boyfriend went through this a couple of months ago, but now we just remained friends.
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Question Asker Well ok we broke up because we hardly ever saw each other and we started fighting all the time but so we did the friend thing but it was so hard so I just didn't talk to him for awhile because I couldn't he told me he loved me and I loved him it was just too hard ya know and we both have had other relationships but I feel like I compare over guy to him so I don't get that same connection and it just doesn't work and he has had other girls and the other day we were talking and he's like I'm so stupid for losing - More than a year ago
 
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