Ok, so I'm deff, not going to try to get this guy that I loved so much back.
so I found out I was pregnant with his baby, and he in return asked me to have an abortion, "NO WAY" was my answer, I told him that my child was more important then him. well 2 months later we found out the babys heart has stopped beating, God made the decision that it wasn't our time, in a way was a good thing.
but now, a month later, I though him and I could be friends, but he tells me that there is nothing thta he misses about me, and that he hates me, and I was just the girl to pass his time in college, (keep in mind he asked my dad on his death bed for my hand in marriage).
so how do I move on? I'm still so nice to him, I still offer to pick stuff up for him when I'm in town, for what? to get told I'm nothing. why do I continue to put myself in this? and why does he do this to me, after what we have been through and after me still letting him continue to do this? please help.
I'm sorry to hear about what happened with your baby. I have been through a similar situation, andI know that no matter how much things would have or wouldn't have worked out, it's still not easy to go through.
As far as this guy, I would say that you should probably just move on. While you could try talking to him to see what his deal is (he asked your dad to marry you, now acting like this), and how he was affected by the whole baby situation (don't look past the stress and emotional strain that guys can get hit with), if he doesn't want to talk about it, there really isn't anything else left to do but move on. I hope this helps.
I think that for him the pain he feels from everything that went on between you two is making him act angry towards you. Everytime he sees your face, it is a reminder of his failures and how his priorities are wrong and he wishes he could be better.
That being said, you are right that you do not need to put up with this. The truth is that he needs you to walk away from him as much as you need to walk away from him.
I know that you have a special connection to this guy, but it's time to severe this relationship and move on. Even if that means you need to find a new town live in, it's time to for the two of you to say good bye and good luck, and leave the past behind.
He isn't worth you being nice to. Its mean of him to treat you that way considering what you went through.
Just forget about him, be around people that love you, go out and have fun doing things you enjoy, get your mind off him and how he's hurting you further, but you ARE enabling him. Don't be subject to that. You'll find someone that is worthy of you soon enough.
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