We were happily going around for three months and it was the best relationship. However, I graduated and moved to another continent. We are more than 8000 miles apart. We carried on the long-distance relationship for a couple of months. But, he broke off with me a couple of weeks ago saying he is not comfortable with long-distance relationships. He had had a bad experience in the past and keeps referring to that. He met his ex Girlfriend and he thinks that he has spoilt her life and doesn't want to do the same with me. I know he loves me, because just a day before he met his ex and started feeling that way he called up andd made me speak with his friends. We had a lovely conversation. Now, however, he doesn't call me, email me, message me nothing. I have stopped all contact with him as well. I feel the urge to contact but I am controlling myself.
Next year after his graduation he might shift to where I am living, but its not for sure. I don't know what to do. A part of me wants him to be mine and another part of me is all confused. Is is that I didn't give him enough space and he's just asking for his freedom or what?
I know some of you might suggest I move on, but I would appreciate if you guys could tell me what might be going on in his mind, and how could I win him over.
long distance relationship ususaly don't work out, and your smart, you should know this! I believe that if its true love, regardless of the distance, he would wait for you (but the feeling must be mutual).
you have two options, you can continue the "struggle" of this relationship or break it off. depends on how you feel. if you can controll yourself from calling him, that's the first step. pretty soon, you'll lose all interest. but have you called him at all? or was he the one calling you all the time?
theres really not a way to "keep him intrested" but to go see him or have him see you. either way, doesn't seem like a good idea. if you need to keep a man interested in you, then he really doesn't love you. he's just using you for your time and emotions. when you find true love, you'll realize even if your broke, far away, etc. he'll be calling you and telling you he loves you and misses you.
sorry to say, but he may have found someone else. and that's the issue with long distance relationships. because when your far from you man/woman, that gives you space and time to "look". he can leave you without someone else in mind. :'-(
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