So, my ex (who is my boss) is going to the beach with his family next week. He never told me about it.I actually figured it out today because the days were marked off on his calendar. I got kinda upset that he didn't tell me. But, I mainly got mad because I feel like we just broke up a few weeks ago and he is already going on vacation. Doesn't that seem like he's just moving on with his life if he's going on a vacation? Am I overreacting by being hurt by that? I know he doesn't have any obligation to me anymore, but is that a sign that he's just going on with his life? Or is it just a sign that his family planned a vacation and he's going along?
He might be moving on, but a family vacation is no indication of that. I think you are over reacting. Now if he was going on a vacation by himself or with a new girlfriend that would be a definite sign.
It sounds like he broke up with you, so you have to be prepared for him to move on. If it hasn't happened yet, it will, and will most likely ruin your working relationship. Be Strong.
Maybe he's just moving on with his life. Does that surprise you? If there was an Olympic event for sleeping with your boss the US women would always take all three positions on the podium in every Olympics.except they'd be fighting over the boss even on the podium!
What exactly do you think he owes you? Does he need your permission to go on vacation with his family?
He wasn't an affair...so you have it completely wrong. We were together for a year and a half...and I was there because it was a small family business and was trying to help him....it's not like I was sleeping with him to get a promotion. - 3 months ago
girl, it's family don't over react. he didn't tell you because like you said you broke up a few weeks ago. so he kinda has the right to not tell you everything you know now. after a break-up the best thing to do is kinda get away and keep minds off things especially if he's really hurt. so don't over react. just think its a family vacation. what would you be doin with family? nothing harmless right. if you still have feelings.ask yourself why you guys broke up.
Well, I know we broke up because we were fighting...my belief is that working together was TOO much for me and my personality and it caused me to be stressed and mean. I still love him very much and he still says he loves me. I guess that's why I was so hurt. Plus, that just a few months ago, *I* went with him and his family and now of course I'm not...but just as an EMPLOYEE, I thought it'd be nice to know my boss is gonna be gone for a week. - 3 months ago
If it's a family thing, I think it really doesn't involve you at all. I mean sure, he could have told you, but post-breakup communication is always tough to figure out.
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