I really messed up...can I get him back?

I'd say leave him be and let him come to you. He sounds pretty freaked out, so it may just take some time for him to want you back. If not, then it just wasn't meant to be.

leave him alone for a while , then if he's not gonna contact you try to move on I konw its hard but you can't keep someone who don't want to be with you ,

Don't push it. If he doesn't want to reply, then let it be for a while. It is really, really desperating when someone keeps just sending and sending and sending you messages. For the blog thing and your comments being removed, don't worry much either. You can't think properly when you are upset with someone. Just give him some weeks off and try contacting him again.

If not, just move on, you will find someone else. You will have a hard learned lessong: don't ever seem needy and clingy.

Hi, I guess I am in the same situation as you - became needy and clingy. Had sex on the day we broke up - which coincidently was on his birthday as well. How bad can things be . he promised to be friends

I tried to contact him, from email, to text and even called him on the phone - there was no reply. I knew that he didn't want me in his life anymore.

It's hard to move on when this person is so constant in your life - day in and day out.
I am still trying to cope, getting on with my life. I guess both of us needs time to get through it.
Sometimes you need to let it go.

well he can't get mad at chu for liking him so much an you really care he was jus being a ass for one argument that tells you right their he ain't care bout chu so I feel as thouh you should move on an find some one would be fine wit ur needy an clingyness. hope I helped jus kept it real.

I think you should continue to give him space. Because at this point, if you initiate any further contact, it'll look desperate. and men hate desperate clingy women. so sit back and wait for him to contact you. just wait and c what happens. if not, let it go sweety. that means he wants nothing more from you.