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He broke up and had me over for Thanksgiving...What's he thinking?

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bouldergirl (Age:18 to 24) When: Over a year ago

Category: Break-Up

My ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. We were living together and as far as I was concerned... things were the best they'd ever been. We were together for about 2 years, so not incredibly long but this was by far the best relationship I'd ever been in. I'd never been so in love with anyone and I was certain that we would stay together for a really long time. Out of nowhere, he comes home one day and breaks up with me insisting that the spark is gone, he'd never fallen in love with me, etc. etc. etc. All of this is completely absurd. It may be true, but just the day before he was telling me how wonderful I was and how much he loved me. And I know for a fact there is not and was not another girl. So that's the background... Now, we haven't hung out much or spoken much since the break up but he invited me to his family Thanksgiving at him mom's house. I went and we had a great time. He gave me a little back rub, he kissed me on the cheek, we were laughing and enjoying each others' company... it felt good to be with him on a holiday. It's now been almost a week, and I haven't heard from him. I understand he clearly needs space but should I just completely throw all hope out the window and assume it's over for good? Why would he invite me to his family Thanksgiving dinner if he did want to draw those parallels again?


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irongrunty

Over a year ago

That is a bit weird (from a guys perspective). The question is, do you want to have anything to do with someone so confusing? Maybe he just brought you around to show face at his family Thanksgiving, because he talked about you so much. In that case, he is kind of a jerk.

His behavior defies my logic. Perhaps you should talk to him more to clarify what set off him breaking up with you? With the two years between you two, he should at least grant you that bit of closure...

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