my ex has a new girlfriend but were still having sex. I want him back and he said he needs time to think about what he wants so my question is if I stop giving it up will that make him think about wanting to come back or will that just make him give up. (and I'm not just sleeping with him to get him back that's lots of reasons y I'm doin it)
So your ex has a new girlfriend but he is still sleeping with you. And you want to be back with him?
I don't understand my generation at all. Your ex is the reason why girls complain about their boyfriends, and why they can't find the nice guys. Your ex doesn't have the decency to break it off with his new girlfriend. He has the arrogance to think he can screw you and keep her. Why would you want someone like that?
You're getting played. If he liked you so much he would have at least gotten back with you, not started a fresh relationship with a new girl.
If you wanted him back, the best way to have went about it was stopped all contact and made him miss you. Why buy the cow when he gets the milk for free? He can get sex from his current girl, or find another one since he's a cheater anyway. Sorry your plan won't work.
Well we just started trying to work on things that went wrong in the relationship and started sleeping together and I know that's 1 thing that was messed up in it cause I wouldn't give into it as much and I know he's not using me for that cause that's lots of times we will just spend time together without having sex but I just need to know if I stop is that gonna make him think differently about me in a bad way - 3 months ago
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Um, I don't know. But starting in the beginning probably made him think different of you in a bad way.
Like "I can get some from her and STILL have another girlfriend". Even if he doesn't treat you like obvious crap, the respect level has went down at least a notch. - 3 months ago
dont sleep with him! out of respect for yourself and for the girl whos getting f***ed over by her so call boyfriend! does that not show you that he's a shit boyfriend if he's cheating on his girlfriend how do you know he didn't cheat on you? and that he wouldnt? he is pure and simply using you and your letting him sorry hun but that's just wrong,it can be sugarcoated anyway you want but its wrong!
I know for a fact that he's never cheated on me cause we ahng with the same people and they would of told me that he's been going thru a lot of shit lately and the break-up was mostly my fault. and he just started acting differently in this way. but we have been trying to work on things that went wrong in it. - 3 months ago
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If he cares for you he wouldn t have sex with you while he has a girlfriend fact, if he wanted you he would dump her straight away and be with you fact !! - 3 months ago
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I kinda told him t2 stay with her till he figures out what he wants cause I didn't want him thinking I was making him leave her I want him 2 do that himself this way I know he really doesn't wanna b wit her an he wants 2 b wit me so did I make a mistake on that and I also think he mite b waitin 2 get his car out of her driveway b4 he does leave her its broke down. and he went out of town 2 make som money and have time 2 think an he said he's been in more contact wit me then her since he left. - 3 months ago
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When: 3 months ago
(Age:18 to 24)
When: 3 months ago
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