I am afraid to lose him by waiting, am afraid that if I didn't contact him he would think that am not trying to get him back because I lost interest in him.
What should I do, for how long should I wait more?
The more you call and text him, the less attractive he'll see you. Pick yourself up and move on. He broke up with you and so the ball is in his court if he wants you back.
Or you can do with what most women I've seen done, try to hang out with him and sleep with him. Then guilt trip him into thinking he's a bad person for using you. I've seen it done. evil.
Well, it depends on a few things. Like why did he break up with you? Is this normal behavior for you two? etc. But honestly, I think you should know what to do. For example, if you know he broke up with you and meant it, then you know you should just leave him be and forget about him! Be strong. You will know what to do!
Stay strong! I sent him that letter someone was going to send yu earlier. I know he read it yesterday, just don't know what he thought or what he is going to do. DId you try doing that? I know what you mean.my heart hurts and my stomach is uneasy. I miss him. And I don't know what he is up to; if he misses me and my son. I'm sure you wonder the same things. Umm, have you tried antidepressants? It may sound weird, but it has pulled me out of my constant sadeness. I'm about 50% better than before. It DOES make it easier to not call. Gurl, I hope we can both have that happy ending that Elle0214 got :) Are you religious? I pray a lot and go to church. Helps me too. I pray that god will bring him back to me.
No xness I still didn't send the letter because everyone keeps telling me I should wait a week or two before contacting him and yes am a religious Muslim but I didn't pray since we broke up I guess I feel so hopeless and the heartache is starting to eat me alive...I wish you the best and hope you would get that happy ending but keep on praying it's much better than those drugs and let me be updated of ur news girl..am really thankful for ur care and for everyone supporting me although am so annoying - 3 months ago
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:) Your not annoying. Your hurt. Good luck! - 3 months ago
lemme tell you something that may help you, this is my story, kinda the same situation you have: ( I didn't wait to call him, I couldn't even wait 24 hours)
when my boyfriend broke up with me, he didn't want anything to do with me. I came to his pad after work (called him before and told him I was coming over) and told him I wanted to talk to him. I left him alone that day and he didn't call. (didn't expect him to either) I know he loves me so I called him the next day and told him I "wanted to see him because I missed him and maybe we can do something". I was extreamly nerous and didn't know what to say. because he told me that "i don't want to be with you anymore". (yeah, that straight out). but anyways, I met him at his friends house, and we went out
before we went out that day, he said he didn't want me sleeping there, on his bed, etc. but things change. and we all the same again. happily ever after.
DON"T call him! Calling someone that has broken up with you, is like setting yourself up for more heartbreak. You should sit back and wait. Wait for as long as you possibly can. If he doesn't call you back, then he has no interest anymore.
You calling him right now, wouldn't be good. Just give him sometime to think about what he has done. Let him see how it feels to not have you in his life. If he really loved you, the pain will become unbearable and he will call you.
guys don't like girls trying to win them back. its annoying to them. if it was love, he WILL call back.
He is not ready for commitment he didn't say anything bad about me but he just feels that if he truly loves me he should let me go for my own sake, why men are so stupid, the only thing I need is him even if we will not be committed at all. - 3 months ago
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Call him and tell him you would like to be his friend. But don't do it if you aren't able to be JUST his friend otherwise it could really hurt you in the end. - 3 months ago
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Ive tried this before but he always says that I can never be his friend and I could never be because his feelings for me are nothing but love and the same for me too I can't think of him but nothing less than my true love. - 3 months ago
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Wow that's confusing. So he loves you but he doesn't want to be friends nor does he want to date? What? How long were you two dating? - 3 months ago
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More than two years but it is not the first time he breaks up with me for the same reason - 3 months ago
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So he's somewhat a commitophobe? That's truly not fair to you. Do you two fight or anything? Is it out of the blue he does this or is there something that triggers it? - 3 months ago
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No sometimes he just decide even after a nice conversation or a nice date he is totally unpredictable when it comes to break up matter but because I get used to it am afraid all the time from the next time he gonna break up with me but this time I feel like it was the last and he won't come back again which puts me in much pain that is so unbearable. - 3 months ago
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Why do you stay with a guy that keeps breaking up with you like that? That's not fair to you. And as great as you think he might be he's really not. You don't deserve to be in a yo yo relationship. In a way it's abusive and the thing is, you allow him to treat you like that and you come back for it. Honestly, the deeper issue here is why do you stick around and why do you think you don't deserve better? Plus you NEEDING him the way you say you do is a bit unsettling. - 3 months ago
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Yeah I know but I do love him and no one else can make me happy the way he does, just being around him gives me all what I almost need in life to keep going one, I know how miserable I seem to be but it's the only truth I know - 3 months ago
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Your self esteem is damaged and I would really look into talking to a therapist. The way this guy is treating you is only damaging you further. Please please please find some help. I aggree with the whole higher power thing. That may help too. - 3 months ago
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