Why do most women never learn to let go?

Hope. The small, little flicker of hope is what drives most women to not let go. Not many women have learned the concept of: 'letting go'. Strong women will see the relationship for what it really is and graciously leave; whereas, not-so-strong women try to hold on to something that was never really there.

In my own experience the way I get dumped is what's hurts me the most. I still don't know why guys act like if they are running away for their lives, they stop answering their phones and ignoring the messages and never reply back, even when they speak or text they just say harsh words and keep on running. Guys always blame us because we keep on calling and texting but not realizing that if they simply listen things would end in a better way. PLS GUYS REALIZE THIS: when you treat as like sh*t, we don't hate u, we think it's our fault to make you treat us that way and start running for you to fix things and say sorry to work things out again and get another chance. Treating us like that won't make us disappear it would make us feel hurt and when a girl is hurt she has no control over her act s and keep on over doing things. Why would a guy lose if he just speaks out with his girl about the reasons he needs to break up and tell her that if she care for him she should let him go. then if she called again and needs to speak more just answer her call and talk to her even if you have no intention of getting back to her just treat her like a human being and time after time when she gets used that she can call you anytime but it won't do her good she would stop and believe me girls do have dignity they only realize it when they are calm and relaxed.

No body likes getting dumped.
Rejection hurts both men and women.
Men just hide those feelings better than women do.
Unlike men, women are very emotional creatures. They are more open to letting their true feelings show. Men can hide their feelings very well. And since they don't want, or need sympathy from others, they keep the pain to themselves. That's difficult for most women to do. If their hurt, their hurt, and the whole world will know it. Especially the person who hurt them.

Also, women seem to create plans, future plans, with the guy they are dating. So when the guy leaves her, it is hard for her to let go because shez already built some kind of life with him, in her head.

Women tend to dream more than guys when they're in a relationship, and they also feel somewhat protected when they have someone by them, and the idea of letting go is kinda scary sometimes, specially if you feel strong about that person.

But sometimes it's time to go, and most girls probably won't feel happy but don't worry about it, and don't just stay with a girl because you know it'll be hard for her to let go, because that wouldn't be fair to either of you, and don't force a relationship either for the same reason.

Just make sure that whenever you break up with someone you're not mean or harsh to them, since .we're I guess more sensitive than most men.

Ever seen the movie: 24 year old virgin?

Well there's a character (male) who still lust for his old ex g/f.

It happens on both sides and I've witnessed it. Although most men keep to themselves and women are more expressive about their emotions.

It's also mis-interpeted; Men tend to get more "angry and violent" saying things like "that whore, that slut, bitch just F#$% with me!" but it's socially viewed as "he's just mad and hates her."

However, when women cry, describe how hurt they are and how much the hate him. It's interpeted as she's "needed him, she's hurt."

Men's emotion: angry
Women: sad

but it's the same emotion of lost and loved but expressed differently through socialization.