yeah so I like this girl a whole lot and what not, like she was perfect. we'd stay up all night and just talk away. I'd play guitar and sing to her. I felt like my life was complete. She even said she loved guys that sang and played guitar. I wasn't exactly dating her yet though. I told her how I felt and then she said that she liked me back. I was so happy to hear that. The only problem was, she was best friends with my step sister. Well we kept things on the downlow for awhile because we knew my step sister would'nt like it. Well so my girl only came over when ever my step sister had her over. Eventually my step sister found out but didn't show much of a reaction to us liking each other but I could tell she was kindof mad. Well my girl had started basketball up and was busy so she didn't come over for about a week. I texted her a lot while she was gone. Well I asked her if she still liked me and all because she had'nt talk to me much. she said she still kindof does but says it won't work out because of being best friends with my step sister. I asked if there was anything I could do about it. and she said 'not really'. so now my step sister told me that my girl kindof like this other guy. Eventually my girl admitted that she kindof liked someone else but its been like a month now and I'm pretty sure she doesn't talk to this other guy much. So I haven't talked to my girl in person for about 2 weeks. But I occasionally see her around in high school. my sister hasn't had her over in awhile but I think it might be because of being busy. So here I am now. 1. I don't think I'll ever be able to forget about my girl but should I keep trying? or should I try to get her back? how? 2. there's another girl that's showing some interest in me but I just don't feel like I did when I was with my girl. Should I not try with her? I've even cried over this. I just liked her so so so so much. what should I do? Please help : (
I think you should follow your heart as well. don't be too pushy though. I think you have to be her friend first or ask your step sister what she thinks is going on in her life. you don't wanna intrude and try to win her back and end up looking like a stalker. Slowly but surely tell her how you feel OR
You could try to talk to the girl that is interested in you. That'll help you move on and then you could possibly make her jealous. no, that wouldn't be right because the other girl would be hurt.
Whatever decision you choose, I think you should folloe your heart and get her back.
go for the new girl! with the situation you're in it more then likely won't work with "your girl" and if she admitted that to you then you NEED to move on. and it may take awhile for you to move on. but you just need to relieze you're going to be with "your girl" somethings in life suck, but you'll be okay.
1. GO AFTER HER. FOLLOW YOUR HEART. if you like her that much then tell her it's killing you. Don't give up. She said herself at one she liked you so you know she probably still does. 2. If you don't feel that "thing" or chemistry with the new girl then don't bother with her or waste your time.
Talk to your step sister and tell her how you feel and that you don't appreciate her doing this. She should respect you and your feelings. Tell her it won't change anything between her and your girl.
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