How to get over a bad breakup?

I think you did the right thing in ending the relationship and I also think that you had second thoughts gave him the benefit of the doubt in asking him back but I would not do it again.

You have answered your own question your ex is sugar coating you. You have been with him for 2 years and if the guy does not know what he wants now! he never will. If he is willing to take the chance of looseing you forever then I think he is prooveing my point. Move on and find someone who will not mess with your emotions.

This guy took a gamble and I would say to him. 'sorry you have lost' end of.

I am going through this right now, the only difference that I was the one begging him back each time, Only the last time I realized that begging will just push him away further. I know that ur worst fear is him getting over you and moving on in his life without u, you feel like you have done a mistake and might have lost him forever. But good news you didn't (so far). His game is clear he just want you to know that you have done wrong breaking up with him because it is supposed to be his job not yours. Yeah girl it's true.,but I will not blame you that you begged him just let us fix that.he is strong now because you are weak so play strong again, be the girl that he used to beg for, don't contact him he wants to be ur friend now because he can't stand it without you and as soon as you disappear for a while he will realize that even sooner than you think.he seems like the kind of guy who enjoys running for the things he want, so keep him busy running.I didn't contact my ex for a week now I miss him each day but if being strong is what he needs then I guess I can make it and if I can then anybody can believe me. GOOD LUCK