Lately I've been thinking about calling/texting my old friend but I'm worried because we left on such bad terms. I don't really understand why exactly we stop being friends but to me he changed during the beginning of summer.
Before school ended he promised we would hang out but when time came he didn't want too. He would always say that he would hurt me and he was a different person. I told him that we would only be friends because I thought he was just saying that because he thought I liked him =\.Other times he would flirt with me, for example he would talk about he wanted to cuddle and said he had some feelings for me. I know that sounds like 'Oh he likes you!' but no he's always like that with everyone. Anyway the third time we talked, he told me that he wanted me go and he didn't want to be friends because he says I freak out to much. I fought and apologize, so he asked me an odd questing 'what would you do if you saw me in the shower alone?' I only asked him why I would be there in the first place? so he told me we can't be friends.
Now the last time I talked to him, he said that we were cool now because I explained to him my reasons for moodiness. I even asked if we were friends again and he just said sure but I felt bad and said well I don't want to cause anymore drama. So he just told me ok goodbye. That was like two months ago since then and now I've been thinking about talking to him again. I know its wrong to try again but apart of me wants to hear him again. I really curious to know how he's doing at college and if he's alright because I care about him as a friend but I really don't think he wants to hear from me.
Should I try talking to him again or just forget about it?
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I THINK YOU SHOULD JUST FORGET ABOUT IT BECAUSE ITS NOT WORTH TRYING TO BE FRIENDS WITH SOMEONE WHO DON'T WANT A FRIENDSHIP. MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE,IT MIGHT BE HAER BUT ONCE YOU START PUTTING YOUR MIND INTO IT IT WILL BE THE BEST THING YOU PROBALY EVER DID! GOOD LUCK = )
I say if he acts like he doesn'r want to be bothered, move on. it sounds like you all left on such bad terms, that he doesn't want any kind of relationship at all, period. but this has been 2 months ago. maybe things have changed. if the urge gets strong enough, I say call him and see what happens. then you'll really know for sure if you should just forget him.
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