Does he want me back?

it doesn't matter what he wants at this point. he had you, and then lost you. you've seemed to move on pretty quickly, good on you. if you don't want to go back and be with him, then don't.

I believe that he wanted to break up with you because he found a new girl which is often the case. NOw that she has broken it off with him he comes running back to you because he feels insecure and weak inside with a broken heart. If you really want him to love you tell him you will think about it and ignore him for a couple weeks and see what he does than maybe give him some attention. As a man I know this always works against me as well!

I guess the question would be weather or not you truly love him. It is strange he hasn't told you he wants back together. Give him time. I'm in the same situation as he may very well be in. I broke up with my girlfriend (Who loved me dearly) because I thought things had went wrong between us. After the break-up, I realized that all the problems that had caused the rift between us weren't as bad as they seemed. At the time in the relationship, I just didn't know how to fix it without taking a step back and evaluating everything. I spent a few weeks away and then realized that I couldn't have such hard feelings between us. I tried to appologize, and we had it out for a few days. In the end we agreed to get along and try to mend our friendship. It was after the mending started and we began communicating again that I realized I truly loved her. I love her with my whole heart, but if we hadn't broken up I wouldn't have realized what I had. Your guy may be doing the same. I confessed this to her and she says that she dosn't know if we could ever love that way again. I know now that I not only love her, but why I love her, what I love about her, and I realize she's the one I want to spend my life with. Sadly some guys out there just can't take being alone, and that could be the case. Still yet, there are a few of us out there who make mistakes, realize what we had, and want to desperatly get that back so we can keep it forever. Don't throw cold water on him, just give him a chance to prove himself. If me and her had went right back into a relationship, I think it would have been a repeat. Me and my ex are friends now and if she ever decides to take me back, I'm asking her to marry me. Sorry for the novel, but it had to be said. Good luck!

well if you want to be with him, den tell him. it will make a world of difference to him.

and if you don't want to, den you shld stay away from him.

dont let him know you want him and don't show any grieving. don't be the one getting rejected. if HE wants to see you then just be like, "okay". and that's it. but I truly believe that if you "loved" eachother, then you wouldn't have broken up in the first place.

thats what it sounds like to me my ex was doing the same thing to me it was like he was dropping little hints that he wanted to get back together and then the other day he came out wit it the only difference between you and me is I want to get back wit him and you dont. but yea it sounds like that's what he's tryin to tell ya

Do you want to get back with him ?

That's all that counts really

DON'T get back with him because you feel sorry for him , I did that and then you're stuck with some one you don't really want to be with and when you decide to break it off its REALLY hard

make sure that he's not using you because he's got nothing else to do because no one deserves to be used like that .

Ring him , find out what's going on ,and if you believe him then it's up to you wheather you want to get back or not .

If you do just tell him you just want to be mates at the moment and to stop asking because he's only going to get upset


Hope everything turns out ok x