About 2 months ago I did the post on my ex that broke up with me, saw me at a party touched me up in the bathroom then said he was drunk and didn't remember about a month or two after the break-up. Another chain of events happend about a week later at a BBQ when we were on the way home while his friend drove he put my hand on his penis and rubbed on my leg. This time saying he wasn't drunk. Some where in all between this I basically told him to come finish what he started and have sex with me. (Shame on me) And that's all to make a long story short.
Before all of this and after the break-up he said he wanted to be friends. I ignored him for a month got a random message from him one day then continued to ignore - two months later another message.
After he didn't show up when I told him to come over he left for vacation. The day he came back he was basically begging to come over (for sex but not in those words) I said I was busy and he gave me every other option in which he could come. (An hour later - I can stop what I'm doing then finish later . . .)
We didn't get to have sex (I didn't want to. I realized that it was a mistake for me to inituate it before and I wasn't going to again) I thought I'd never hear from him again because it didn't happen and that's all he basically wanted from me now.
But now he's messaging me daily. Even when my away message is on. The conversations are friendly (we've been friends since childhood) and their like the ones we always used to have before all this. He asks me how my day was, he tells me about his day and how he's gotten muscles and we just talk.
What could be his reasoning behind this? What does anyone think about this? Any similar experiences.
(You can read the old post if you like to get all the details and such)
It sounds as though he either wants to continue being friends or he wants to get back together with you. One thing is for sure, he want you back in his life. If you don't want this you should let him know firmly but nicely.
Without actually knowing this guy, there's too many variables to guess his motives. No matter what they are, though. Move on. Tell him to in clear fashion. Don't be nice. Be direct. He might be confused, he might be looking for an easy lay. Cutting him out and being direct will work best for both of you in either case.
It seems like he wants you for sex, but if you haven't been giving it to him, then why is he pursuing? It looks like he wants you back in his life for sure, but if I was you, I would tell him f*ck off, that is if you don't have feeling for you anymore. Regardless of the issues you both have, (of why you broke up) anything could be worked out if it is "true love". Your looking for the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. If he's not the guy, then just say goodbye. While messing with this dude, you could have passed up "the one".
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