Ok so I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now. We recently broke up which we have in the past and no big deal. This break up was not a big deal but me to no show that she was right when she said I was gonna regret this decided to prolong the break up. Bad idea. She started going out and partying. Now when I realize that I'm wrong and do want her back she says that needs time( which is fine) cause I hurt her. But also on the other hand she says that now she needs time for feelings to come back and that she sees me as a friend. Throughout the break up I would still talk to her and such. This is really weird and I would never expect that after 3 years. Yes I'm her bestfriend as well as her boy friend but she does nt see me as a Boyfriend anymore. I am trying hard to get her back. What can I do for her to see me as a Boyfriend again and not just a friend? Do you think that could be the real reason? Thanks
JA ja ja ain't that a bitch! LOL Ok I'm sorry but when a guy hurts you all you want is for them to come begging and to make them pay. I may be wrong but I doubt she will take you seriously again.
okay well I personally have been on that other side where your x girlfriend is I was really good friends with this guy we dated for 3 years off and on , I lost my virginaty to him basicly he was everything to me. I loved him but he hurt me time after time to a point I couldn't take him back I started partying drinking smoking mary basicly everything you could think of she has it ruff right now I'm pretty sure she still loves you because you just don't fall out of love but sometimes us girls get to a point of giving up we don't thing that the guy is ever going to change and its not worth it anymore to us so we rather be friends then to lose them all together she needs a lot of time my x tried to get me back but I never did take him back needless to say I told him that he would regret it that time and surely I stuck to my word not saying that she will cus she might not. but I say give her time but let her know your there try doing something SWEET for her to let her know you care . like maybe send her flowers and a note . or something. but maybe now she just really does want to stay in that friend zone. who knows.
ok well I can relate so much I was that gurl but alil dif. I think its a good idea to just be friends and let her realize like you realize that you miss her and want her back. Jus let her c what else is out there and iam more than sure wen she see what's out there she will be coming back to you. But be friends for now also you see if she's really the gurl for you go out don't rub it and her face tho. and wen you get her back don't let her go.
Hi, why don't you for now just accept each other as being friends, take things slowly and show her that you really care and be there for her. She maybe doesn't want to get back with you in case you hurt her again, or it could be a defence mechanism, (she really does like you but won't admit it because of fear of being hurt again). After 3 years in a relationship you cannot just switch off feelings like that overnight. Give her time and space and hopefully things will work out, the key to successful relationships are trust, communication, loving/caring and being there for each other no matter what. Good luck hun
There is nothing you can do to change her feelings of how she sees you regardless of how long you both have been with eachother. If I were you, since you both could basically tell each other anything, I would ask her where things went wrong. If she insists on the notion that you two are still just going to have to be friends, the best thing you can do is give her space and focus on moving on. If it is meant to be, she will come back around. There is no use of you sitting around and pining over someone like that. Maybe through being more involved and focussed in your own things, you will find that it was for the best anyway? Just a thought. Hope everything works out hun:)
sorry, but those feeling are probally not going to come back. once just friend feelings happen, its more so that boyfriend feelings toward you aren't going to happen:/
Well first off (I don't mean to be rude) next time you ask a question, it would be awesome if you revised all your grammar and such. It really benefits you mostly because the better you convey your thoughts, the better the answers that you receive will be. Anyways, you should have known better than to purposely anger your girlfriend. "This break up was not a big deal but me to no show that she was right when she said I was gonna regret this decided to prolong the break up." Revised version: I didn't think that this break up was a very big deal, but my girlfriend told me that I'd regret it. To prove to her that I wouldn't regret anything, I prolonged our breakup. Proving women wrong is a HUGE NO-NO! If you want to fix this one, then you're probably going to have to get off your high horse and beg her for mercy. Well, OK don't beg, but your going to need to give her a serious apology. BE SINCERE WHEN YOU APOLOGIZE, otherwise you might make things worse. If you two have been going out for such a long time and can still be friends after a break up, then she would probably take you back. I wish you luck!
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