After the break-up..?

did you break up with him or did he break up with you?

i'm sorry hon. you must have been in love. it may take a while to ease the pain.

No its not it will take time to let him go but embrace every minute of it you have your whole life to be commited to one person enjoy lifes precious moments

i understand exactly what your going through. I was with a guy for 4 years he was my first everything and so much more. Its been a year and I'm still crying over him. You just need to pick your head up and be strong because life goes on. I know its hard but its something you need to do.

I don't think it is. I think if you truly loved him, then you probably miss him a great deal. My ex and I broke up 2 months ago and I'm still very upset over it. I love him more than anything and it's very hard to forget him. You're not weird.just heartbroken. I hope it gets better for you (and me).good luck

Honey, sorry to hear you're hurting I know it's tough when a relationship ends, regardless who the one was that ended it. How long were y'all dating? That could be playing a big factor in it. We all love having someone who's giving us special attention. Sometimes it's that void of not having that around--it can make you feel empty inside. That void really feels weird sometimes. Don't let that void get the better of you. Take extra time with your friends and family. Go out and get a manicure. Stop by Starbucks. Take brisk walks. Keep yourself in shape, and focus on some new things, maybe even get a new hobby.

I dated a guy all through high school. After 4 years of dating, we broke up. I cried and cried for 6 months and got all depressed, even thought about taking my own life (a VERY stupid thing to do!). I was so busy focused on what was now over that I wasn't looking ahead to see all of the new things that was coming into my life. When I finally allowed myself to accept the change and stopped dwelling on it, the tears went away.

I know it seems easier to say than to do, but once you set your mind to taking each day as it comes and taking the best out of each moment, you'll get back to yourself again.

Trials either make us or break us--just let it make you stronger.

Hugs to ya!

Not at all, I don't think. Everyone's grief is different. Just make sure you're focused on moving on, and not dwelling on what happened. Crying helps get all the emotion out so that you can do that better, in my opinion.