Does he want to give me another chance?

Well let me put it to you like this. The very fact that I have made you this offer, Jeannette, is my answer to your question. For if I thought it was too late for you, why would I say that I can help to bring him back? The answer is implicit then in my offer

Then again, if this guy comes right back to you, isn't that, too, the answer to your question? And in a way that all our answers here as well as your own question will become entirely moot?

And isn't that what you want?

Then again, when you ask "Is it too late for me?" Aren't you really asking if there's a way you can hold on to him? Isn't the whole point that you don't want to give up trying to win him back? You said so right here in factL "I don't know how to win him back. My heart and my gut tell me that he is "the one" and I don't want to give up.but is it too late for me?" To me that reads like you want him back but you don't know how to go about it, and that is why you asked the qustion if it was too late. Apparently want to know if he's still worth the effort.

And all of that is answered by my simple offer to you. SO yes, it's entirel yrelevant.

However if I was mistaken, I apologize. I didn't think this was just an academic question. I thought the whole point was that you genuinely wanted this guy to come back.

If I said, no there is no hope, that would break your heart. If I said, yes, there is hope, and I turn out to be wrong, I have given you hope for nothing and thus only helped to prolong your agony.

I'm not a mindreader. I can't read his mind. Besides, in my experience people's thoughts and feelings are never cast in stone. He could think one thing today and it will all be changed tomorrow.

What I CAN do is to ask God to bring him back to you, and so far He has never failed to grant me my requests. Is that so very strange?

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Jeanette, do you know the story/joke of the guy who was on a boat and the boat sank and the guy called out to Peter to rescue him? The captain of a passing ship saw him in distress and sent out a boat to pick hium up. But when the baot came up close the guy in the water said, "Sorry but I'm waiting for someone else to arrive [i.e. Peter]." So the guy in the boat went back empty-handed.

The guy then prayed again for Peter to rescue him. The captain of another passing ship saw him and sent out a boat to try and pick him up, but he again said "I'm waiting for someone else."

This happened a third time, before finally the guy drowned and went to heaven, where he met Peter. At which point he exclaimed, "Hey, :Peter, why didn't you rescue me?" Peter replies. "What do you mean? I sent you three ships!"

The moral to that story is (in case it wasn't obvious) that you never know where help is going to come from, so never look a gift horse in the mouth.

Oops, Forgot to mention that if you want my help let me know by either replying below or pming me and let me know this guy's first name.

If I work on him and the guy doesn't come back to you, it'll be my first failure in more than 20 cases. So, up to you. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Sounds to me like he's just making excuses and trying to dig the knife in and twist it for past slights. Not nice. And maybe that's a warning, too, not to get involved, so this may be a blessing in disguise. You don't want to get involved with someone who will bring you a lifetime of misery. I'd say you clash because he enjoys playing wihtyour emotions. See, right now he's got your dangling a string. He's broken up with you, but allows you to think there's still hope. You can do better than this guy.

However, if you really think he's worth fighting for -- and quite frankly I don't -- then I can assist you with prayer. I have a pretty successfull track record at helping people like you (with prayer) get back together with an estranged partner (actually 100% in about 20 + cases so far), as I use certain very special prayers to achieve this that have not failed me so far. I could go into the case stories one by one, but I don't want to bore you with the details. Suffice to say that ladies are easy to help. God seems to prefer assisting them to men.

If you're skeptical, then try me. I haven't yet met anyone who can do what I do, and I'd be as skeptical as you if I didn't know me.



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Well I think you guys need to sit and just talk about this whole thing about if you can make it work ,why things might not have worked in the past also what each of you expect of each other. That talk will make a huge impact on the way your relationship is structured. All of those things are the foundation to you guys and if all of those things can be resolved then you guys will thrive! If you two don't get along figure out why and how to fix it you both anc make commitments to change for the better