I'm moving back to the town where I grew up soon and my ex who I broke up with because I moved has been keeping in touch with me. I've been considering getting back together with her and she certainly has been considering the idea as well because the feelings never left. Still, she's a different person now and I'm not sure it would be a good idea. She's still just as nice and fun to talk to and has the same interests, but there's complications.
After we broke up she met a guy and they got together, ended up being together almost 3 years and were even going to get married. But he called it off because she put on a little weight (which doesn't bother me). That sort of hurt her self esteem and she sort of turned into something of a slut after they broke up. She's currently messing around with 2 guys, one of which is a married man with a kid on the way. She says she'd stop it all if we got back together, but I dunno.
Like I said I still have feelings for her and she still has feelings for me. In a lot of ways she's still the same person I was in love with back then but in other ways she's not, and I don't like the changes.
See if she is the same when you get back, don't make anything official with her. But show your interest. Calling her a slut, no. I was where she is at. Maybe she's been hurt, and sex fills a void. That's where it was for me for a while. If she's the same, and the sex if the only problem, it could be good for you.
(Age:25 to 29)
When: 2 months ago
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