im having a hard time! Me and my ex broke up because he travel so much for work. Now I guess he is starting to miss me and him. The thing that is the hard part is I started seeing someone to get over him and I think I may have jumped to fast, plus my ex started talk to his ex because I found someone new. He is calling a lot and telling me he miss me and thinks about me all the time and honestly I do too! my boyfriend now is so good to me and I know I like him but I know I'm not in love with him. I cry all the time because I feel so lost on what I want, I know I shouldnt take my ex back because so much has happend. I know to stay with my new boyfriend.
I just won't to know if anyone else has been in this spot and how delt with it. I would like to hear storys. if you got any
its tuff cause you like them both. I have liked 2 girls before at the same time its tuf. I would continue to see the guy your with. if you and your x are ment to be something will happen wear you will end up togeather. keep in contact with him. just wait and see you have time on your side. to see how this unfolds.
Yeah the only bad thing is, my ex is friends with my new boyfriends friends (but they don't really know each other more of mutual friends) so I'm worryed to keep in touch with the ex - 2 months ago
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How long have you and your ex been broken up for? and when did he start to come around?
We broke up at the end of may I think it was we didn't talk much for a month because he said it was to hard, then around the start of augest he started to come around more and talk to me more, I ran into him over the weekend and we sat and talked for hours, we both cryed and now I can't get him off my mind - 2 months ago
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Thats a tricky one. Did anything really bad happen between you and your ex besides the break-up? Did he break up with you? - 2 months ago
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Well he didn't take me trying to move on very well, he started to hang out with this one girl (which I don't blame him!) But other then that nothing bad, he keeps telling me he misses me and wants to be together but its just to hard right now with his traveling. yes he did end it with me after he left to colorado (he called crying!) I just want to get over this and still be with my boyfriend now. Sometimes I with my boyfriend now was as close to me as my ex was - 2 months ago
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Do you love your current boyfriend or can you see yourself falling in love with him? Do you think you could work things out with your ex if you went back to him? I think love is hard to find. If you had something good with your ex, then I say give it another try. If you like your new boyfriend more, then I say forget your ex and move on with your new boyfriend. - 2 months ago
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Thats what's hard. I don't LOVE my new boyfriend (yet) but I do like him. My ex I did fall in love with him and I'm relizing that now. the thing with my ex is I'm scared where is still traveling and if I gave up my new boyfriend to be with my ex he will change his mine (he did this once before to me) and say its to hard and I'm left hurt and a lone. the thing that kills me with my new boyfriend is I want more!!!! feel more like a girlfriend then just one of the guys - 2 months ago
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