How to get over a break up??

Wheew! fist tell your self that" I am responsible" because if you didn't give him the chance to love you he would have even came to point of breaking your heart.Just discard everything that reminds you of him.Also don't just stop to call him because you think you don't wana hear him.call him if you miss him very much but don't say anything that lovely to let him kno you miss badly.first call him say once every four days till you can open it up more.Make him feel like you busy by make the call very short by saying gota go,gota go!and cut the line.Be at ur best at this time to let him you can make it even though he is not in your life.It happened to me last 3 weeks.i felt like dying last three weeks but ma ex will be shocked to see me move on without caring abt her any more.all tha best sister.

yeah.it takes time.sorry, probably not what you want to hear. But in the end, you'll meet someone more suited to you. may take a while, or it could happen soon. If you want to get over the person as quickly as possible, best thing to do is get rid of anything that reminds you of the person.go out with your friends as much as possible, be really active. this tends to help alot.
Forget about getting involved with anyone right away, because chances are you'll just hurt that person, and that's just bad karma. Stay out of relationships for a couple months at least.eventually you'll meet someone cool.everytime you enter into a new relationship, its best to try to improve upon the last one. try doing things a little differently, being a better listner, whatever.make it a better relationship. good luck

I am going through the same feelings that you have except that it has been three weeks since the break up, yeah and I still have that idea of getting back together although we didn't talk since then. Am sorry but nothing you can do will help you get him back except waiting. I won't tell you to wait for too long, just one month. That's what am intending to do and the only plan I have right now. They say by time he will miss you or by time you will forget about him. I have some tips that might help you if you want to wait those 30 days before contacting him again or moving on:

1- Don't do things or go to places that you used to go together
2- Don't listen to sad music try to listen to music that makes you feel like dancing
3- Write down all ur feeling but never send them to him
4- Chat with new people or meet new friends but don't start dating right now
5- Read about other people's problems here @ girlsaskguys and try to answer those who need help as you do, trust me that's the most thing that helped me out so far
6- Everyone told me to keep myself busy but it's ur choice to choose what makes you busy the most (the gym, going out with friends, watching movies,.etc)

I have made it through those three weeks by doing those things and if I can do it then you surely can, GOOD LUCK

Don't ever talk to him again, it will be better that way.
I stopped eating for being sad over an X and hurt myself and my parents and my friends really bad. Throw aways everything that reminds you of him, EVERYTHING! Delete numbers, messages, gifts, pictures. EVERYTHING like you didn't even know he existed.
This will be hard but if you really want to get over him you have to do it.
Then, go hang with other boys or girls.