Hi! My boyfriend left me a month ago. We were together for 5 years. I am completely in love with him. We have been living together on and off for the 5 years. He had some lame excuse and then said he was leaving and started grabbing his things and walked out. I want him back so bad. I am going insane, I miss him like crazy. I lost my boyfriend but, he was also my best friend. He always said he loved me and would never leave me. But he did. What do I do NOW? HELP!!
Sounds like there might be someone else. Don't call or anything. Let him wonder what you are doing. When he calls sound upbeat and happy. He will come around. If you give it time, after a few months you will be able to talk about everything that went wrong. Once a guy thinks you are gone in every way, including friendship they get curious and call. That's when you play nice and all the info comes out. Then is the time to decide on what YOU want. Stay busy. Go out with friends but for Goodness sakes, don't go into another relationship right now. That will only do damage to all parties involved.
Is there someone else he is seeing maybe? Did you ask him that? I had this happen to me, but I was 5 months pregnant, and we had been together for 5 years by then. That was the hardest thing to go through. My daughter is now 7 and it is still her and I. My ex left me for another rich woman. Time is the only thing that will help you get over this. Maybe he will come back, but maybe he will not. Try to live honestly and pray for patience and understanding. Focus on something that makes you happy. It is meant to be, he will come back. Good luck
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