How do you get over someone who you fell for and loved and still think that you do still love them even if they are treating you like shit. And all you can think about is what if I did this, would he?...And now he won't talk to me anymore when he said that he still wanted to be friends?
Its hard, nearly impossible it seems, I'm going through the same right now, you'll find someone that makes your heart flutter the way he did, I know it sounds crazy but it will, and you'll know it the second you look in their eye, even if you and him don't get back together its his loss, and he' ll realize it when he sees you as happy as you were with him and he's with a nobody.
It will hurt at first and then it will pass. One day, just gone. But do your best to smile, never let him see you hurt. Laugh often, even if it is fake. Before you know it, it will be real laughter. Don't do anything harsh. Make him regret the break up by acting like you are better off without him...He will call...they all call. if he wants to play the friendship crap...fine but let that be later. You're too sensitive right now.
I am sorry this happened to you but I will tell you this...more sweeties will come You will dump some and they will dump you. Stay grounded. I have faith in you. Good luck!
Ive learned through many years that the only way to get over someone is to find someone who interests u more. Stop thinking that u did something wrong cause someone who doesn't want to be a part of u is only losing out! Guys just like to make our lives hard and when u show them no attention and make them feel like u moved on they'll be running back to u on both their knees and palms.
It really takes time though, and you have to depend on yourself and strength a lot, but it can be done. I went through a similar situation and I can say that after a while it gets easier. As for the friends thing if he's still always someone in the back of your mind popping up at odd moments, then it's safe to say maybe you shouldn't be friends because it's still an open wound. After a while when you can associate him as him and not what you used to do or when you're not IN love with him anymore.
southernbelle
(Age:36 to 45)
When: More than a year ago
Great question...really. Been through something like this. It hurts deeply, but let go and if in time he gets back in touch with you then you know he feels the same. I know it's probably not what you want to hear. I just hope you told him the truth about your feelings, if you did you should feel good about it. Time really is the essence of all things.
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