I really like this guy... he was everything I wanted in a guy. Tall, dark and handsome, really nice, respected me... just everything was amazing. He picked me up to go to school, he would always compliment me, and he was just a complete gentlemen, he always opened the car door for me. Treated me like a complete princess... then all of the sudden he just broke up with me. His reason was.... I brought a negative vibe and I was a bitch to his friends. I didn't even know what to say to that. His friends never really liked me and they said crap about me to him a lot. I think it was his friends who made him break up with me but I don't know.
I don't understand why he listened to them. I'm not saying that I am an amazing person or anything like that but I don't think I did anything wrong. Unless he wanted me to be all over his friends which makes no sense. I don't know.
I have been trying to forget about him and just move on but I can't. I think I tried everything. I tried liking other people and stuff but it doesn't work. I end up comparing them with him. It really sucks. If the guys don't do what I like I always think about my ex boyfriend and how he would never do that because he knows what I like and what I don't like. He is just such a good person.
I just don't know what to do. I like him so much. I call him sometimes... just to talk and he calls sometimes too. But I feel like there's no hope. He already found some other girl and it's killing me. Please help me decide what to do. I like him so much.
By the way, the fact that he already found another girl should tell you he was just a player. If he really liked you, he wouldn't care what his friends had to say, unless of course, you were really bitchy to them...
Well I don't really know if he did or not. His friend told me he did but when I asked him about it he denied it. The thing is I was extremely quiet around his friends. I didn't want say something dumb and have them make fun of me. Idk w/e. Thanks though :) - 7 months ago
Answerer
No player is going to admit he has another girl of course. :) If you kept quiet around the friends, then even more reason to say he is a true player. - 7 months ago
Question Asker
Ughh...ok :( i really want him back.....but I guess the truth is the truth and it sucks sometimes. Thanx for the feedback. - 7 months ago
It is very difficult at this time in your break up. Time is the only thing that is going to make it easier, believe me. Each and everyday that you can get through without any contact, will make it easier. If he has someone else, just try to focus on your angel, the one meant for you, he is out there waiting for you too.
I don't think it was the friends. But keep in mind that the kind of people one chooses for one's friends says a lot about the person. I think he has more than one element to his personality, sort of a smooth James Bond type guy who is polite and gentlemanly, but more as a character than his true self.
I think you should let it soak in a bit. Fighting or trying to avoid the pain isn't going to help. Getting your heart broken is, unfortunately, part of the dating game. It sucks. But you've got to either spend time healing so you're ready for a new relationship or force yourself into giving the next guy an honest shot. It's not fair to you to keep on calling him and trying to keep that going - let yourself move on.
I think the problem is that you never got closure , you don't know why it really ended , ask him it will help you move on or possibly even start the fire again !
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