So we were together for three years, living together, talks of marriage, and he helped me raise my five year old son since he was two. We fought a lot towards the end of our relationship. I broke up with him two weeks before he did (but for like 5 minutes) cause I realized it was a mistake. We were together for the following two weeks. Then he says he can't do it anymore. I'm sure you have all read my questions before. Well, just this past monday he has finally started to be coll with me. He asks me to call him (twice) and we just talked for like 25 minutes each time. He added me as a friend on myspace (finally) and leaves me commens and sends me messages. He also makes comments about the guys I talk to. I thought maybe he was coming around, but when we talked on the phone yesterday he mentioned he doesn't care who I date, and that he hopes I will be cool when he gets a new gf! Guys, what is he doing here? He admited to me he has his own issues, but the reason we broke up is due to our fighting. He hasn't said he loves me since like the week after we broke up. I love him so much, but am at a loss. Guys, he is done with me? Just keeping me around as a backup?
Saying that he doesn't care who you date reads as get yourself another boyfriend so I can be sure it's over between us and get someone for myself. It's also a possibilty that he already has someone else lined up and has given you to the ok to date so that, if it comes back to him, he can say that going out with other people was brought up in conversation.
Why did you guys start fighting so much? Not getting reconciliation after a misunderstanding just builds and builds to the point you find yourself at now.
I can't say if he's done with you, but don't allow yourself to be a backup. If you're together then be together, if not then lay it down.
Money issues. Plus I was depressed. It sucks. You know, I thought the same thing. It hurts to know it could be truly over. And you can't make people change their minds about you. Thanks! - 2 months ago
He's trying to be nice with you. He cared enough about you to be in a relationship and now he wants to be able to still be friends and be close. I think he realizes that you both aren't good for each other romantically for now. Who knows what will happen down the road. But for now I think he is just being your friend.
I don't think he's done with you but he may have somethings he has to work out. But the worse thing about myspace is that people you don't even know are adding you. So maybe he has a problem with they guys on your myspace. I would let him know in a private setting get a sitter and talk it out in person. You guys dated for I while contacting through computer is so impersonal. He cares who you date don't let it fool you he's trying to hurt you don't let him get you down.
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