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What would you do if you were in this position?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 2 months ago
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My ex broke up with me back in April. We have been dating for a little under three years. I fell in love with this girl like no other. The problem is we were a long distance relationship during our whole span. She was there for me until the last month. I had one month left before I was going to be relocated close to home (military). Then after I got back she had jumped into a new relationship and kept me around just so when things went bad with her new relationship. Her new relationship only lasted about 2 months and it finally ended. After a month or so she started texting and calling me back and made it obvious that she wants me back. I am now in a new relationship that I am happy with but the problem is there are aspects in the relationship that doesn't quite fulfill me like it did when I was with my ex. But my ex is telling me there is a new guy waiting around to have a chance with her. So my question is would any of you give you and your ex another try if you were in my position or stick with your new relationship that you have now and make the most of it with the new? Thanks.

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Niny2
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Niny2 (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Take your time before you decide what to do. This is a very complicated situation that you are in. Will your ex leave again? If I were you I would follow my heart and make it work
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Limey
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Limey (Age:30 to 35)      When: 2 months ago
you should end a relationship because you feel there is something wrong with it, not because something better has come alone. also when your dumbed you should wait long enough to get over the old girlfriend before you start a new relationship. (which clearly you didnt)

A relationship is not like a car where you trade one in, when a newer better model becomes available.

Normally Id say don't do it. She dumped you, why do you think it would be any better this time?
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she left you to start a new relationship, you want to leave your girlfriend to be with her. go for it, you two are made for each other
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chinni (Age:25 to 29)      When: 2 months ago
Yes I will surely but not before speaking out not to do the same mistakes done earlier . and find and tell the expectations between both of you . also discussing the future plans of each will help to see if you both can be together for long
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