Ok just a little background info before the real question... I was with my boyfriend for a yr and then he broke up with me cause he doesn't want a girlfiend right now. But I've been on and off about whether or not I should be his friend. But I just found out from him that he's been really down for a while and that he's unhappy with his life and that he honestly doesn't care for much these days, he rarely goes out with friends, he puts himself down, and his priorities are screwed up. so pretty much I would like to know what other people would do in this situation. I mean I really want to be there for him and be cool with him, but yet a part of me is thinking is this the right thing to do? and I'd also sort of like to get back with him at some point down the road. so I don't know...