Sex with ex?

No.

He was distant, then broke up with you. "Still dating, but not as serious." Only met you for sex.

Sounds like a great booty call, not someone I was in love with.

alright this is how I see it. Your ex, was laying mad game! (being passionate). Sry hun, but it sounds like he was using you to get inside your pants. Grown distant and still having sex, yea he was using you! You definitely deserve better ;D

Let's see. He was very affectionate, well so am I, so I can't really decipher true motives about that.

But then he got distant? That sounds weird. Usually things heat up more and more, at least with me.

You made a mistake by continuing to have sex with him. Yeah, I am a guy and I will admit that. Sex is great, it is important in any healthy relationship. It is healthy in serious relationships, and as he said, it wasn't something serious. However, the sex was just with each other, so that tells me he had feelings for you. And the fact that you talk on the phone for hours, well he wouldn't do that if he didn't have feelings for you.

And the goodbye, well the goodbye says everything. The duration of the goodbye, the difficulty leaving, the passion of last kisses, last words. I believe he did have real feelings for you, or he was a deceitful person.

No. You just became his friend with benefits. Also how sure are you that you were the only one he was having sex with? I'm not being mean but honest! It's never a good idea to keep having a sex with a guy after you break up it leads to false hope and looking into things that are not really there.

Females look at this and say it was just for sex . . . well how do we know this? He's a man; everything if its not filled with red hearts and mushy emotions isn't anything in our opinions. We should let a male answer this question.

And just for the record, I'm with you on the feelings thing. There has to be something more that keeps a man around, even if its sex all the time. I'm sure you have to feel some kind of bond - I mean at the end of the day people just don't jump into bed with anything that has a sexual organ. I think maybe they let go then they realize it just may have been too soon, of course a man won't come right out and say that so he wants to continue to have sex (after all it's still some kind of closeness)

Its seems like it was all about sex with him. Sorry to say that but you say he was distant for a while but you were still having sex.Sounds like a 'booty call' if you will. I wouldn't talk to him no calls, nothing. You deserve better.

Honestly! no. I think your relationship was more sexual than anything else. I don't think you love him either, you ego is being crushed, nobody likes to be dumped. I'm going thru it right now.