My friend and I like the same dude

You should talk to your friend. She needs to realize that your friendships comes way before the guys. Don't be afraid to make her choose because it's not fair to you that she's dating your crush. If she picks him, this just means that she cares more about the guy.. but when they break up and when she comes back yelling to you, don't accept her.

Girl I know what you mean...i liked this guy for about 4 yrs he lived next to me, we hung out everyday...i had the biggest crush ever on him,,all my friends new it,,..but one of my friends (the head of the cheerleader team) came over we`d been friends for like 8 years and she knew I liked him,,but she did too...so I told him about it..and they started dating ..they made out and everything right in front of me...she was my best friend she shouldn't have done that I thought but anyways ...they broke up ..and we all were friends again..and then one night we all were laying on my bed watching a movie and I fell asleep and I woke up too them making out twice..it killed me..and they were like (don't you want us to be happy?? and they say it's your fault for pushing us together) But anyways you would just think that your friend wouldn't do that to you...the worst thing is is that that boy played me like I was a game,,,,he used me,,,one night he`d kiss me and act like he would love me...the next he hated me ...he just used me cause he wanted sex..

but I felt horrible it was a pain that never went away


don't really have any advice for you..but just thought i`d tell you my story..

good luck