My ex boyfriend and I were together for a few months about a year ago. He broke up with me but never really made it final or told me why. We started to be friends again and were building a good relationship until my friend told me what had happened. There was another girl, but he didn't want to "hurt me" so he didn't tell me.
Since then, we have been talking 3-4 times a week and staying the night together about once every two weeks. I feel almost like a friend with benefits, but when we are together it's like we are in a relationship. I still really have feelings for him, but is it worth me telling him?, should I let it go and just be friends?, or should I stop talking to him?
thormoto45
(Age:25 to 29)
When: More than a year ago
He wants the best of both worlds or maybe he just wants what he can't have. Either cut out the sex or if you don't mind getting hurt stick with it but just know that to him you're just a friend who takes care of his sexual needs, even as good a friends as you may be.
This friend relationship sounds like it's getting kinda serious to me. Maybe you should talk to him about it and maybe how he feels towards you - Does he flirt? Is it just like when you were together? You never know, maybe things could go back to the way they are. On the other hand he might be over what you guys had - and that could damage your relationship forever. These situations are especially difficult but you've just gotta do what YOU feel is right, and take your own advice because you know this guy best! Good luck =]