I don't understand the mixed signal of men, can you help?

I know that I am going to sound very Harsh here but it's the only way I see to answer this question.

This guy your talking about sounds like bad news, at least from a relationship stand point. any good guy that has found a good girl like you sound to be would not ever think of talking to another girl in a romantic way if they are truly serious about the girl they are with. To me it sounds like you guys were pretty serious because he asked you to marry him.

for the sake of your own well being, which is the most important thing, I feel you should just cut your losses and move on to a guy that will treat you the way you deserve. It sounds like this guy is not taking you and your feelings seriously enough. if he was he would have been apologizing to you all over the place for making you feel the way you did as well he would stop the actions that make you feel that way. there are so many guys out there that would be willing to bend over backwards for a good sound girl. I know it will hurt for a while until your over him but I think it is for the better so you do not continue to get hurt like this.

First and foremost, I am sorry for your heartache.

I hope a guy responds cause I think you need a guys opinion on this one.

Me? I say the hell with old boy and move forward. Any person that cannot take my feelings into consideration is not worthy of my love. Marriage is a serious commitment, if you are willing to move and change school, those are serious actions. He needs to also act serious about your feelings. What you are about to do changes everything. If you do decide to move forward with your relationship really weigh the pros and cons.

You sound like a good girl. I have a feeling happiness will find you. Stay in school. I can tell you from experience, I am a golden goose now and all the guys that treated me bad are now want a second chance. Ah...not! Game over!

Hope my opinion isn't hard on you. I know you will find your answer within. I wish you only the best.

Some people just need a little bit of something to themselves. A bit of time. Change can be a good thing. Distance makes the heart grow fonder.

At the moment, anyway, maybe he's confused that you took it so hard. Have you considered that maybe he thought what he was doing was alright?

I think maybe you guys need to talk? Really get those feelings out in the open. Only then will you know how he feels and maybe try and begin to understand these signals.