My boyfriend broke up with me almost a year ago. In the beginning he was really into me ( I would say more than I in him), and he was all about our relationship progressing quickly. I met the parents and he met mine just a few weeks into the relationship.at his request. It kinda scared the hell out of me because I didn't feel like he had given me enough time to figure out what my feeling were for him. But I knew he was such a good guy that I kinda went along with everything. Anyway, the fear of committing to him so quickly combined with some uncertainty and maybe taking him for granted somewhat kind of killed the excitement I got out of the relationship and caused me to not devote as much time to the relationship as I should have. Well.he ended up breaking up with me saying that he felt like I just didn't need him and I wasn't acting like his girlfriend. It was completely out of the blue for me and I was actually really devastated when it happened. I did care about him a lot, I just wasn't doing the best job of showing it. .and I've come to realize it even more now that he's gone.go figure. I just wanted to get a guys perspective on what the chances of us getting back together might be. We haven't really kept in touch. I run into him every couple of months and have civil small talk conversation but that's it. Would you take a girl like me back? Should I initiate? What could I say that would make any difference?
Yeah I'd give you another chance. Assuming I'm single. I doubt very much he'd initiate because for all he knows, you'd just shut him out again. Nobody's going to go purposely get shot down when they've already decided in their head you're going to reject them. Call him and ask him how he's been, re-get-to-know-him, and if it's going well suggest you meet up. Assuming he's single I really do like your chances. It might take a little persistence but if you think he's worth it, what have you got to lose?
And as for what you can say to him, tell him truly how you feel. If it's easier, write him a letter. But you should meet him face to face at least at some point. And make sure if you get back together that you do things differently this time around.
He probably cares a lot for you still. I imagine that he's probably more hurt than you are.
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