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What do I do to get my boyfriend back?

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istilllovehim (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Okay, on November 12th my boyfriend and I went out for his birthday and we got into an argument on the way home. He ended up dropping me back off by my car with no bye I love you or anything. Then the next day we ended up breaking up. I want him to want me back as much I do. What can I do?


Update: well my thing is though I do love him and I am the mother of his child and it just makes me mad that he is treating her this way. but I'm done with his bullshit. thanks for the advice but after this weekend I am completely done with him.    More than a year ago

Update: i know everyone has a problem with that. but ya know I love my daughter and if people want to look down on me because of that then that's ur own problem I don't really care.    More than a year ago

Update: sorry, I got on the defensive. you know what I like talking to you. really, you understand me! anyways if you want to email me then you can.    More than a year ago

Update: yea you got that right. lol so where you from.
    More than a year ago

Update: yes.i do. I mean I don't know exactly but my english teacher was in the army and he went over there. he was telling us about what goes on friday nights in there.    More than a year ago

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lilmama
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lilmama      When: More than a year ago
I would apologize for the fight on his birthday. Even if you didn't start it. The last thing you want to do is spend ur b-day with someone who you end up fighting with. I would tell him I would make it up to him and see if he repsonds. It depends on what and how often you argue for him to come back. Fighting on ur birthday is harsh (I make it a point to never fight on b-days, even if you don't want to bite ur tongue) at that point I would re evalute my relationship too. Try to keep the lines of communication open so you can talk through it. Don't go days without talking. Giving the person less time to think about the pros and cons is better.
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
haha I'm from singapore.u probably won't know where it is LOL
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
nah I can understand.it really sounded like I was quite disgusted with that fact.sorry.typing out the words doesn't really have the same effect as saying it out haha
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
no no.u mistook me!its an hounourable and brave thing to bring up ur own child at such a young age.no doubt abt that.i really respect you for it.i dun look down on you seriously!
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
wow.ur the mother of his child and ur under 18?er.wow.
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raz0rblastz
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
1:find the reason why he broke up with u
2:if the reason is valid(etc.he got another girl)--give up
3:if the reason is dumb(etc.he's insecure/irritated)---suggest a temporary break to work out the clinks in ur relationship
4:consider HARD if you want this relationship to continue and dun regret it
5:if he lost all love for you and even if you love him.there's no point.(go to step 2)
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coolguy93939
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coolguy93939      When: More than a year ago
maybe he doesnt
want you back
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lost-angel
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lost-angel      When: 11 months ago
Can you and razOrblastz message each other somewhere else - instead of "updating" each time you respond to him?
I don't mean to be rude, but I don't want to keep coming back to this question "update" when it doesn't even have anything to do with your original question.

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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
:D stay strong girl!

theres someone out there who deserves you! obviously he didnt. :D
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malayka
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malayka      When: More than a year ago
what was the argument about? did you hurt his feelings? what made it so bad that you had to break up? you need to be careful of what you saying to loved ones,even if you are upset. ur message is not clear enough to analyse it deeply but ask if you could talk face to face and then tell him how you feel,and that you wanted to go back with him.
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lost-angel      When: More than a year ago
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MsHottie
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MsHottie      When: More than a year ago
babe its fine but if you do talk to him and he gets all pissy its not!
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