Am I wrong for asking my boyfriend to stop talking to other women on myspace, or we are over?

He's not your boyfriend

You sound a bit controlling and jealous.go ahead and give the ultimatum.if you like him after that you won't see him again.take it from a guy who gets accused of doing things all the time. it gets old

i hate to say this and you dnt have to listen to me but I think he's a flirt. I am to and I do the same thing that he is doing. If your ok with dating a flirt then go for it but if your the kind of girl who doesn't want him getting to flirty wth other girls then you might wana start lookin for another guy who will treat you right and treat you like a freaking queen.

Hope I helped

Nope, you're not wrong.

I think you're reasonable in asking him to stop talking to other girls online -- especially if he's having sexy chats with them, that's cheating in my opinion.

And I think you have the right to tell him it's a deal-breaker if he keeps it up. If he says you're insecure, he's being defensive and trying to make you the villain.

SOUNDS LIKE THIS GUY IS A TOTAL LIAR AND JERK, IF YOU STAY WITH HIM YOU WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM OR WHAT HE IKS DOING, WHY WOULD HE NEED TO TALK TO ANOTHER WOMAN SEXUALLY IF YOU ARE WITH HIM, HE OBVIOUSLY DOES NOT CARE ABOUT YOU OR YOUR FEELINGS, WITH THAT SAID YOU SHOULD FIND YOU A MAN WHO WILL BE GOOD TO YOU AND LOVES YOU

Yes you are wrong to ask him to stop talking to other women, that shows possessiveness and jealousy and control, he will only do it behind your back now. You are better to trust him, or its not worth being with him.

If you have proof.then I have NO idea why you are staying with this jerk.

MySpace is runining Relationships,and by sounds of it , its ruining yours if he won't show you he's profile not even for a minute then he's hiding something and then its all true and by sounds off it, he's making sure you feel bad so he can carry on doing whatever he's secretly doing and get away with it while your feeling bad and probs trusting him when you shouldnt, but that's opion as I know relationships are ruining relationships fast.

I would agree with you. Dump his sorry ass.

while giving an ultimatum is the wrong way to save a relationship, it will actually drive it apart faster. what he is doing is not right and his refusal to show you that you ahve nothing to worry about does not instill confidence in his actions. I would say he's already given you the answer and it wasn't the one you wanted.

you def not wrong for wantin him to stop. just talk to him about it and see where it goes from there.

Myspace destroys relationships. Every single one of my girlfriends and guy friends - myself included have gotten bitched at for some type of myspace activity. Look you 2 met on myspace. trust me its trouble- tell him to switch to facebook its a more grown up version of myspace and a lot harder to srew around on. Seriously though trust your gut- its always right. if he wasnt hiding anything he would show you his really cool profile since he loves myspace so much. I hate to say it- guys hate ultimatiums but this guy is playing dirty.
Another thought. give him a tast of his own medicine and do the exact same thing. You do not have to engage in anything just do it to make him wonder. Two can play at this game, see how he feels than.
Be a little secretive, it will drive him wild.

I would break up with him.

girl I'm young and I agree wit u. you are not bein unreasonable. if it is built on trust, than what shud it matter if you find out, right. ask him again, and if he still refuses, that's on u, or you can get another man, to be honest, I wouldn't want 2 b and a relationship worrien all da time. so do what you gotta do.