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What is the best way bring up getting back together?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 11 months ago
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My ex and I were together for a long time and he broke up with me because he wasn't feeling it anymore. It really hurt me, he knew how hard it was for me and tried to help me move on. I asked for some distance and now that I am stronger he is acting different and wanting me around all the time. I get the feeling he wants me back but is worried I don't want him back. or doesn't want to hurt me again if it doesn't work.

Given that I don't know if he wants me back should I tell him I still have feelings for him, or wait to see if he tells me himself?


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Tell him how I feel about him

Wait until he tells me (if he does want me back)

Wait and see

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BillyBob      When: 11 months ago
Don't say anything just one time when your togther lean in and start kissing and then after he'll probali say does this mean we're together and then you say yeah and then have great make up sex ; )

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aixela1234      When: 11 months ago
i would wait to see if he tells you himself because then you don't get that special feeling from him. so ya! just wait or if it doesn't come up slowly bring the subject up but don't seem deperate to ask him!
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
Did he ever explain exactly what he wasn't feeling anymore? I suspect that maybe your mood or attitude might've changed that he didn't find appealing. People get turned off for the weirdest reasons. Then after you pulled yourself together again he probably saw what attracted him to you in the first place. I think give him little hints to show him that you're still interested in him. Like pay more attention to him, be flirtatious, call him up to hang out more often. Do the things you used to do as a girlfriend minus the physical stuff. When the time is right (you'll know when that is, it won't take long) either you or him can talk this over. You could comment on how things lately feel like they used to. He'll probably agree. And just take it from there. :)
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Anonymous User      When: 11 months ago
First thing anyone should do is just talk to the other person.

Everyone is different and the only person that knows how your particular ex is feeling is him. So talk to him first.
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Does he like me?

Or not?

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