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How do I get over him?

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lil-hyph (Age:Under 18)     When: 11 months ago
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I went out with my best friend's brother and I really did luv him but he broke up with me right on the day I came back from church camp. when he we were together he was really mean to me but I still liked him no matter what. when he broke up with me he told me he wasn't ready for a relationship but right when he broke up with me he had a new girlfriend. I was really sad but I'm just not sure if I should just move on or wait for him. wat should I do? how can I get over him?

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NotThere (Age:18 to 24)      When: 11 months ago
Okay, clearly, you do not wait for him. Ever. If you needed him to pick you up from the airport, you do not wait for him. You take the bus. That's not a metaphor. You literally do not depend on this guy in any way, shape or form because HE DOES NOT DESERVE YOU.

There's no easy way to get over a break-up, especially if you're the dumpee and not the dumper. What you need to remember is that your self-worth and your dating future is dependent on the choices you make, not him. Now me telling you that this guy is a jerk (and he clearly is) probably doesn't help. You probably already know this but you still want to be with him. It's the part of affection that doesn't make any sense and it sucks. If love were completely rational, we probably wouldn't need this site.

But if you see your own value as a person, then you'll realize that he doesn't matter. You're a great person and he's simply not worthy of you. Be, in the words of our President, The Decider. Feel confident in who you are and know that it's his loss, not yours. Every time you start to long for him, try to remember that.
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r3al-sag1ttar1us (Age:Under 18)      When: 11 months ago
Don't waste your valuable time waiting on a jerk like him. You should move on to someone who does deserve you. I'm sure there is someone who appreciates you & is waiting on you like your waiting on that jerk. Getting over him won't be easy but give it some time and I'm sure you will. Good luck.
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