Ideas on how to get him back?

Why did you break up?

Eye for an eye huh? Your not just mad that he left you are you? There's probably a reason for the break up that would make you wanna get back at him. That reason would probably help people understand why you would wanna get back at him.

I would just ignore and forget about him and get over it. Guys get satisfaction out of knowing that your paying attention to them, whether your f**ked off at them or love them. Ignore them and there's no satisfaction for them.

Get him back is way different than hurt him back...you should probably decide which angle you are going for before acting on it. If you want to get him back, the only way I think is to give the situation breathing room and force yourself to be happy. Literally...force yourself. If he calls, smile when you are on the phone, keep the convo short, and make sure you are the one to get off the phone first! You need to regain the control back! And that begins inside yourself! Also - this may seem rather cruel and very difficult to do...but should you find yourself in a position to get physical with him, or say you guys have a drink then he wants to come over or whatevs...DO NOT GET PHYSICAL. I love men, I really do...but their motivation is far more simple than ours...we want the stability of a relationship, the comfort, the passion, the love...in truth - they want the sex first, then whatever happens after well, who knows...I truly believe that to hit a guy you are involved with where it hurts...withhold withhold withhold...until you've decided he's worthy enough to even be in the position to have it again!!! Plus - guys never want anything it seems that they don't have to work for...

Create competition. Start dating someone and be sure to go to the places he hangs out or be seen by someone who will tell him. Then when he calls blow him off and act like you are busy. If you can be patient enough it will work. Good Luck

Yea that's true what those people telling you that's the only way to get back by not obsessing over it. Just try and get over it. Don't treat him badly just to get back and don't try to get back with him either because then he's gonna think your obsessed. Just leave him alone and try your best to move on.

I agree with DeepBlade usually the best and most mature way to get back at someone is to show them that you don't need them. If you can go on with your life like they were never there hey don't get any attention, and that is what gets them because if your giving them attention they can take that use it to frustrate you. Being above it and moving on is really the best thing you can do for yourself and to tick them off. In the end though if they did something to hurt them don't think about what is good or bad for them at all think about yourself.