i really started feeling for a girl and asked her out.she said yes but told me she doesn't lik me that way.i ws like fine mayb she would start liking after some time.so we continued d relation hoping tht sumtime she'd be able to lik me.after a month she told me she doesn't like me so she broke up.i accepted it and we guyz dint talk for about 2 weeks.den I received an email in which she ws like "im really srry.but I cnt patch up.i do miss you a lot at times" and all dis stuff.i thot mayb she started missing me and wanted me back.immediately I asked her out again.n she said she doesn't like me and doesn't want to get in a relationship.so she refused d proposal. I really got desparate you and tried to convince her to come bak but to no avail.while we were in d relation she told me to hide some secrets. but I broke her trust and leaked dem out because I wanted to know if she would come bak. and wen she came to know abt it she really got angry.i told her wteva I did ws to get you backn really apologised for everythn several times. since then we guyz don't talk much.i know I've really hurt her badly but I really want her back.im really guilty of brokin her trust.is der any way I cn get her back ?
Update: wen did I say I blackmailed her ? I had to reveal dem to someone because he forced me to do it
More than a year ago
NO, there is no way you will ever be able to have a serious relationship with this guy. For one she told you over and over again she doesn't feel that way about you. Second-you broke her trust, she will never trust you again. How can you suspect she even wants to be friends with you after what he did to her? A trust to a women is valuable.You break that-you break everything. I would give up and hope and pray that oneday she forgives you enough to be a friends again. Sorry if that was a bit harsh.I just wanted to get the point across
Well no need for srry.. I know I've committed a big mistake and I've got to pay for it.. its as simple as tht.. she does talk 2 me sumtimes though.. but dun you thnk if I play a bit hard wid her..mayb she'd miss me and starts feeling for me ? - More than a year ago
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No, that play hard bullshit doesn't work wiht us women. We hate it..or at least I do. I would just talk to her like nothing every happened and maybe things will be left in the past and you can rebuild the trust with her again - More than a year ago
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well, start apologizing like crazy, do things that she's always want you to do with her, treat her better, try really super hard, that's all ican say and if you give enought reason for her to come back, she just might.
Breaking her trust is a big no no for starters, you may have to just accept that she doesn't feel the way you want her to. Unfortunately I have just broken off with someone, and I was in your shoes, so I broke it off out of respect for myself and my need to feel loved and not second best. Find somene that will want you full heartedly.
ok wrong phrasing.but you did in fact tell her secret to someone else.and you said that guy "forced you to" BUT jus now you said that you did it on purpose to find out if she would come back.which is the real version?
Actuually der were 2-3 secrets.. 1 I myself revealed not forcefully to find out if she would come bak and d oder secrets were forcefully sniffed out of me - More than a year ago
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4get all dis.. if I wudnt hav broken her trust den cud I hav got her back ? - More than a year ago
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Its really up to her to determine if she wants to be with u..u can't force her to be with you anyway.. since you already broke her trust there's like 0% chance of you getting with her from ur 10% if you didnt - More than a year ago
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Yeh but people suggest me that jus once try to play a bit hard wid her..mayb she'd miss me and mayb want to come bak - More than a year ago
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So ur playing "hard' is by breaking her trust?thats jus weird - More than a year ago
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U don't get me.. now that's everythn over I've broken her trust and everythng now shud I jus ignore her a bit if she calls me or wants to tok 2 me ? - More than a year ago
dude.the girl already said she doesn't feel that way abt u.she even gave you a chance and tried going out with you but it didn't work out.that should have been the cut-off point for ur relationship already.but then you "blackmailed" her with HER secrets that she told you in confidence.dude that's one of the ultimate stupidest and cowardly thing you can ever do.and DEFINITELY she's NEVER gonna talk to you already much less trust u.u can forgot abt it.ur love probably means nothing to her
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