So my ex of over 2 years broke up with me in September and it really crushed me. He said he still wanted to be friends but after a month of being a mess I told him I couldn't see or talk to him for a while because it was just too hard. He understood and told me to get back in touch when I was ready. After 2 weeks of having absolutely no contact with him he started messaging me, emailing and telling me we needed to talk. When I went online to talk to him he wanted to know if I slept with someone else, and even though I told him no I don't think he believed me because he brought it up more then once. Anyway, we started hanging out again about 3 weeks ago and he wanted to have sex desperately. I said I wasn't interested in causal sex but he was persistent and eventually I gave in. He has been very sweet after this and treated me like he did when we were first together. But last weekend we went to a party again and there was a girl flirting with him the whole night and she asked him (when I was standing in front of him) if I was his ex. I obviously heard this comment and looked at them both like they were idiots. They realized I knew what she just said and there was an awkward moment until she said 'maybe I should come back later'. She continued to flirt with him all night and I just decided to ignore it and have a good time. Anyway, after a while my friend and I decided to leave early because she had to be up early the next day and I told him we were going (we were staying at his flat that night because it was nearby) and asked for the key. After we got home he showed up about 5 minutes later so I figured he couldn't have been that much into this girl if he didn't want to stick around with her.
Anyway, the next day after my friend left we were alone and he was trying to have sex with me again and I told him I couldn't do it anymore with someone who wasn't committed to me. He told me he wasn't interested in having a relationship with other girls. So I am wondering now if we are on our way to getting back together or if he just wants to sleep around.
If he says he doesn't want a relationship with other girls, but lets them be all over him, and the next day wants sex with you, Ide say he doesn't want a relationship with anyone. He just wants the bang bang bang.
He might be also trying to figure his emotions out. I went through a similiar experience (still sort of am) where I took a long break from the fiance just trying to figure out if I really wanted her. And I realize I still do. But the distance helped me sort that out.
he didn't chase away the girl that was flirting with him and he only came back to you for sex sex sex.it sounds like he's jus using you for sex only.u might love him but I dun think his feelings for you are the same as urs for him.
If he is serious, he wouldn't be doing this 'I want to have sex', a guy will be serious if he listens to you. You have to tell him that, go on actual dates and see if he can 'behave'. It's time he takes it seriously, otherwise I doubt giving into him will help you, you will be the one who gets hurt more if you keep giving into him, in my honest opinion, he's being very selfish right now. Don't listen to his 'words', look at his 'actions'. You two should sit down and tell him to his face, this is a serious discussion etc etc, how do you feel about being actually serious about this relationship happening 'in your own words of course' and go from there, otherwise, him flirting with other girls at a party doesn't mean he's serious. You've got to talk to him, I don't know the details, but this is what I would do. Personally, I wouldn't have talked to him after he continued flirting with that girl, I would make him beg.
Well I would think if he wanted to sleep around he would have stayed at the party and tried to hook up with that girl. If he doesn't want a relationship with other girls, that's probably a sign that he still has some feelings for you. I don't know if you'll get back together though. Try not to give into him until he decides if he wants to be with you or not.
I think there is a very good chance that the two of you could get back together. The fact that he didn't pay that much attention to that girl at the party says something about him. If he wanted to have sex, he could of had sex with that girl and he didnt. He came home to you. So, just give it time. Let things be the way they are .and see what happens. However, if you do not feel like having casual sex with him anymore. Just tell him that you don't like having sex with people if your not in a relationship with them.
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