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How to get your ex back

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bhall20 (Age:18 to 24)     When: More than a year ago
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Alright so my ex and I have been broken up for a while. However one of her friends told me she missed me. Btw she broke up with me for no reason, as in she couldn't give herself or her friends a reason as to why she broke up with me. but anyways I started talking to her again (I have missed her the whole time) and I eventually confronted her. she said she missed me but can't see us dating. But then a few days later she told me she actually doesn't know how she feels. So yeah I know she is jumping in and out, but I want to know how to get her back. I have done some research and most of the free advice is dumb. so does anyone have advice? much thanks


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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
Hey!

Well it sounds like you have a pretty good chance as she's showing interest, even if it's inconsistent. So don't ruin it =)

If she is so indecisive about her feelings for you, my best advice is to take things slowly, and show her how considerate you are. Start off as friends and stay as friends, i.e. no hooking up, or she may doubt your intentions (like she may think you want her only for sex. Girls have a tendency to over-analyse so leave no room for uncertainty). Spend time with her, but don't overcrowd her-- so see her like once every other week, then once a week, and let her enjoy spending time with you. Be fun and polite and sweet, and don't be pushy (i.e. don't confront her again until she is ready otherwise you won't get anywhere). I'm sure she'll like you more and more until she's absolutely certain about it.

Good luck! And let us know how it turned out =)
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
if you really want her back just give her time.
if she really likes you then she will come back
keep reminding her how you feel but don't pressure her into getting back with you
untill she is ready
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Anonymous User      When: More than a year ago
I have a ex boyfriend that sounds just like her and I miss him so much to. That fact of the matter is, if she can't tell you what she want then she really is unsure and if she is unsure even if you were going to get back together it's just going to end up in the same situation. If she really cares and wants you back then she will come to you.
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Reeses-pieces777      When: More than a year ago
You'll have to do something. especially reassuring that you'll be there for her & that your heart is hers. do something to show you care. be there for her, talk to her as if you two just met, work hard to win her heart. I wish my ex did these things when this happened to me, however, he hurt me pretty badly and it fell apart again. so I hope this helps, this is from a girl's point of view of what I wish wasn't just ruins of a relationship.
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Shack      When: More than a year ago
I think you should start doing all those things she like ans try toi keep her company when you kno she might be feeling lonely.try to be nice to her and expect nothing back.Dont let her read in btwn lines but shower her with care like a friend and she will profess her love again.it worked for me!
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raz0rblastz      When: More than a year ago
she didn't give you an explaination and she keeps giving half-way answers.thats plain stupid.right now she's jus keeping you in the loop JUS IN CASE.she's playing you man
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