Hi! So, my boyfriend recently broke up with me about a week or two ago. We decided to be friends, so we still talked but every conversation we ended up talking about our relationship (and this was the 3rd time we broke up) Eventually, he told me that I was better off without him, but he wanted to go on a date with me. I agreed with him. The next day, he backs out saying he loves me to death but it's too hard for him. And decides to not to talk to me anymore. I admit, I am very busy with my interests, but I always try to make a little time for him. It doesn't make sense to me. Advice?
I have a similar situation. My ex broke up with me many times but we kept falling in love again every time we met. (Well this lasted 4 a couple months until she recently found herself a new guy(rebound?) Since then, she actively kept her feelings from falling in love with me. (like no zoning out/kissing/sleeping in the same bed/making love.) (it's almost she feels guilty to fall in love with me after hurting me so much)
When I mentioned her that she doesn't even like me then she gets all upset/angry at me. She mentioned that I make her feel guilty in our relationship because I'm too righteous/moralist. I don't think she actually knows how much I actually love her. She keeps mention to her friend that she would like to be treated like a woman & not a wife. She keeps mentioning that I deserve someone better. & she gets all sad/worry with my feelings when she introduces me to her new "friend". (yes, 3 of us met together twice & we all behave super well)
For now, we've decided not to stay as lovers but friends. We still treat each other super nice & lots of respect/forgiveness.
ya, things don't always make sense to me as much as you.
Like Allochris and you, I have had a 3 year on and off relationship, most of which is off. His problem is he wants me... but not right now... and he doesn't want anyone else to have me either.
While I am far from him, his starts to fall for other girls (simply because of the company) then when I get close, he wants me but doesn't want me).
So for me, i've decided to live my life and not hold my breath. Because GIRL, if this boy really wants me, he's gonna chase me and show me he's worth my life. Coz baby, you did the right thing, you loved, loved deeply, gave your all like any woman and if he can't appreciate that, he's not worth your time. Yes he loves you.. what guy wouldn't but unless he pulls his act together don't waste your time.
He recognises your worth but has is own issues to work out. Give him time.. and meanwhile go live life.
Don't get me wrong -- I love my boyfriend of 8 months. He's great to me, we get along, and have a lot in common, and I know he loves me. But things in...
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What is your favorite outfit for a night out with friends?
Nothing too 'try hard'. Probably a simple - figure flattering dress, which falls just above the knee, and a pair of cute heels. A simple bracelet and stud earrings.
How do you style your hair and do your make-up?
I wear minimal make-up, often none, but if I do it's just simple mascara and lip balm. My hair would be down in loose, natural looking curls.
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